Classic example
Xiao Qiang turned out to be an obedient and well-behaved child with good academic performance. Xiao Qiang's parents are very busy at work and have no time to take care of Xiao Qiang. The daily life at home is basically taken care of by the invited little aunt. After Xiao Qiang entered the fifth grade, he often needed to use the Internet to check information. His parents feel that they have less and less time to help him look up information at work, so they installed broadband at home, which is convenient for Xiao Qiang to look up information online by himself. When Xiao Qiang came into contact with the Internet, he felt novel, as if he had discovered a new continent, and was immediately attracted by the Internet. As long as his parents don't pay attention, he spends less time searching for information and more time watching cartoons and playing games. After a semester, Xiao Qiang's eyesight dropped sharply, his academic performance also dropped seriously, and his mental state was not as good as before. Xiao Qiang's parents learned from his aunt that he was addicted to the Internet and decided to strictly control him. So, what is the reason why Xiao Qiang is addicted to the Internet? What should parents do to prevent their children from indulging in the internet?
Expert diagnosis
Obviously, Xiao Qiang has been addicted to the Internet, and he has become addicted. The result is poor eyesight, poor grades and a trance. The main reasons for children's internet addiction are: parents ignore their children's emotional needs, parents spend less time with their children, and lack contact and communication with peers. The emotional world is blank or vacuum, and the network only provides children with a virtual space for emotional sustenance. At the same time, parents' expectations of their children are too high, and the pressure of study is increasing. Children can't bear it psychologically, so they choose the internet as the best way to escape the pressure. A lot of information on the internet is really full of temptation and attraction for young primary school students. Once in contact, it is easy to indulge. Xiao Qiang's parents didn't pay enough attention to him, which became the main reason of his internet addiction, and his parents didn't give him enough time to indulge in the internet. Xiao Qiang's parents need to take timely measures to help Xiao Qiang quit Internet addiction, re-understand and use the Internet, and make the Internet truly become a mentor to help children grow up.
Golden war tactics
First of all, parents should fully communicate with their children, strengthen parent-child relationship, avoid children's emotional emptiness, and choose the internet as spiritual sustenance. At the same time, parents should set an example for their children on the internet and ask them to do what they should do first. Some parents indulge themselves in online games instead of searching for useful knowledge and information online. How can they ask their children not to be addicted to online games? Parents should make three chapters with their children, stipulate the time and duration of their children's surfing the internet, and may control computers and networks through some technical means to achieve the purpose of monitoring their children's surfing the internet.
Secondly, parents should not keep their children in a relatively closed family environment. They should encourage their children to take part in real activities, interact with them and participate in various interest classes that are beneficial to their physical and mental health. This can not only satisfy their playful nature, but also release all kinds of pressures from life and study, help them stay away from the temptation of the network and reduce the chance of indulging in the network.
Thirdly, parents should help their children to establish a correct network view. In today's society, network technology is a necessary basic skill for children. Parents should encourage their children to contact the Internet, make better use of the Internet, and regard the Internet as a tool and encyclopedia to facilitate the search for relevant knowledge. Of course, there are many functions of the network, such as providing people with a lot of games and entertainment, and also enabling people to achieve shopping, communication, office and other needs. Therefore, the network itself is not mysterious and blameless. The key is that people have a good attitude when using the network. Pupils should surf the Internet on the principle of learning knowledge and obtaining information, instead of just indulging in online games or doing other things that have little to do with learning.
Finally, parents should help their children choose the correct network information. A large amount of information on the Internet is helpful for children's learning and healthy development. Proper use of the Internet can help children expand their knowledge, open their minds and improve their academic performance. However, the ability of primary school students to distinguish right from wrong is still very poor, and the network information is mixed. Parents should help their children to correctly choose the source of network information, ensure that their children visit websites that are conducive to physical and mental health and learning progress, and prohibit their children from visiting unhealthy websites to avoid falling into them. As long as parents guide them correctly, the network will become a good assistant for children's learning.