Reflections on the third phase of the open class of family education 1
Children are the wealth of every parent. How to make children grow up healthily and live happily with their parents in school and even in society in the future is an unavoidable realistic topic for every parent.
School life requires children to establish a strong sense of collective and time, abide by school discipline and respect social morality. However, the child's young age and playful nature only made him understand these truths. If he doesn't go through continuous and proper training and education, he may not get better results. Therefore, from the beginning of kindergarten, I have given them regular education, and put forward clear requirements on how to attend classes, how to answer questions, how to respect teachers, how to unite classmates to deal with the relationship between classmates and so on. Then, it is often taught that children still can't "see everything", otherwise, children may not have childlike innocence.
I can't educate my children simply by reasoning. Children like to listen to adult stories when they are young, and even the most naughty children will be reminded immediately when they listen to stories. I caught my son's curious psychological characteristics and often gave him timely education through childhood hardships.
In order to cultivate good study habits, I told him an example of a famous contemporary scientist and let him know that he should study hard and seriously. When children do their homework, it is inevitable that there will be a phenomenon of "twisting their buttocks". In order to cultivate children's patience and patience, mother will read a book quietly while he is doing his homework, so that he can gradually cultivate quiet and dynamic behavior habits.
We attach great importance to children's ideological and moral education and the spirit of unity and friendship. For example, children sometimes complain that individual classmates are interested in his things, such as toys and books, and even ask him to treat them to buy food after school. In this case, I will smile and say to him: As a male classmate, you should at least be generous and open-minded. Why not be a "good man" and a "leader" if you have the ability? Next, the child himself smiled, and the child seemed to understand what I meant, so I achieved my educational goal. But on the other hand, I will never allow him to have "that" thought, because this is an unequal requirement under the two "systems". I told my son that whoever has equal secular care will have secular results in the future.
I always feel that our cultivation of children's moral construction is conducive to his help in moral education. Educate and cultivate children to respect social morality (such as giving up their seats on buses, helping begging peers or the elderly in society, sponsoring charity performances for the disabled, donating money for the Wenchuan earthquake, etc.). ) can greatly cultivate his sympathy and gratitude for the existing happy life and help him build greater self-confidence and sense of responsibility for society in the future. For another example, when we give my parents pension money every month, we should try our best to let the children see it and let him know that their parents don't forget to bite the hand that feeds them. On several occasions, children will naturally "care about and urge" whether we "honor" his grandparents in time in January. Filial piety has sprouted and thrived in children's young hearts since then. Although children are young, they are still among the primary school students, but it takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to cultivate people. To improve the quality of one generation, we must have the contribution of the second generation. There is no reason why we parents should not undertake this mission. Lao Liang preached about our country with young chinese.
Everyone has self-esteem, moderate praise and criticism. After children distinguish right from wrong, I often praise a student partner around me, and use his positive factors in moral quality, thinking and behavior to influence and overcome the negative factors in his children, which is conducive to students learning from each other and achieving the goal of learning from each other's strengths.
Children are very imitative, and every move, word and deed of teachers and parents have a subtle influence on children. At work, my child's mother and I are strict with ourselves and set an example everywhere. No matter what the children are asked to do, we try our best to do it first. If children are asked to be polite to people, I will take the lead in using polite language; If I ask my children to care for the environment, I will take the lead in environmental protection. In particular, I can take the initiative to clean the corridor of our own unit, from the sixth floor to the first floor, for seven years.
How time flies! Although we are busy every day, we are happy and tired. In the future, we will work harder, constantly improve ourselves, improve ourselves, and let our son leap to a higher level in his growth.
Reflections on the third phase of the open class of family education II
Primary education is the earliest formal education a person receives in his life. Doing a good job in primary education plays an important role in cultivating children's noble morality and good quality from an early age. Good primary education can help children finish primary school, middle school and even university in the future. As the saying goes, "everything is difficult at the beginning", and primary education is the "head" of life education. How to make a good start is very important. It can sometimes decide what kind of road a person will take in this life and how to be a man in the future.
When my daughter was in the first grade, I always thought that this period should be the best time to cultivate her good study habits. After school, I accompany her to finish her homework every day and ask her to check it and prepare for the review. I always feel that if she forms this habit, she won't have any difficulty in her studies. It's easier said than done. At first, my daughter moved slowly, wrote slowly, and did problems slowly, erasing and writing word by word. There are not many new words in a text, but she has to write half a sentence or even an hour. I got 55 points in a Chinese exam. Later, the teacher called and said that my daughter couldn't do it, but she did it too slowly and asked her parents to exercise her more at home. Therefore, I put an alarm clock on her desk every day when I go home from school to do my homework, so that she can have a sense of time and finish her homework within the specified time. After a period of exercise, my daughter's writing speed is obviously accelerated, the quality of her homework is also very good, and her daughter has confidence. I also bought some homework for her to practice at home on weekends. After I finish, I will help her to correct it with a red pen like a teacher, write down the scores and help her explain her mistakes until she understands. I have kept this habit since I graduated from grade one to grade five. I think this knowledge in primary school is the foundation, and it is nothing more than doing more problems. Watch more questions and do more, and you will do well in the exam. So her grades have always been among the best.
Let me talk about how to tutor three main courses at home.
First of all, I speak Chinese first. Chinese in the lower grades is nothing more than remembering the new words you have learned and then slowly expanding them into words. If you learn more words, you will make sentences. We must lay a good foundation and recite new words and phrases every day. As time goes by, if she knows more words, her reading ability will improve. This is of great help to children's reading analysis and composition in the future. You should also read more extracurricular books. At first, you can read some pinyin extracurricular books, which is helpful to improve pinyin. We should also take our children out to see nature, let her observe everything around her carefully, and let her write what she saw and heard when she wrote her composition in senior grades. With this foundation, coupled with the improvement of children's understanding ability and the increase of reading, it is easy to express their views on things. In Gary, I often buy some books for open reading and reading analysis, so that children can practice more at home, which can improve their reading analysis and let her read good articles. This is really killing two birds with one stone.
I don't have any special tricks about learning mathematics. When children are young, the development of brain language function is greater than logical thinking. In other words, children are slow in logical thinking. Therefore, you should tell your child in a simple way when she encounters a problem that she can't do. Don't talk to her rashly about a topic that you think is simple, but she still doesn't understand. Be sure to think and understand according to the child's thinking. In order to make education conform to the law of children's growth and development, we can focus on cultivating her sensitivity to numbers. Play games and cards one by one, and train her computing ability. When she finishes learning addition, subtraction, multiplication and division, she can play 2 1 dot with her. This can not only learn knowledge, but also increase feelings with children. Once, the school held a parent-child activity, and my daughter and I won the 24-point PK competition. When a child makes a leap in logical thinking, she will learn mathematics faster and easier.
Nowadays, English is much more difficult than when we were young. I also learned from scratch with my daughter. What I learned in school during the day, I listened to it several times in the repeater at night, and let her see it. After reading it, I asked the children to recite the words and memorize them. The knowledge of the day is digested on the same day. Reading, reciting and silent reading are the foundation. They have a solid foundation and can cope with future pronunciation and grammar. Let the children do more homework at home to consolidate it. This kind of English achievement is certainly ok.
In short, primary school students' family education should learn to communicate with their children attentively, that is, be patient and meticulous, and be flexible and diverse. As long as we all become good friends of our children, are we afraid that we can't teach well?
Reflections on the third phase of the open class of family education 3
(1) Parents should set an example for their children, schools should make enterprising guidance, and both sides should work together.
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are role models for their children. Only when they do it themselves will the children learn. If it's just reasonable, but the individual can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education, in any case, is beyond the golden jade, and the education inside simply doesn't work. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results. My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't understand how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example to let him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, the child has made progress not only in his studies, but also in other aspects under the inculcation of his father and school teachers, and has become a sensible and good child.
(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits. Colleagues told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children form a good habit of conscious learning. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
(3) cultivate children's interest, this is the teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that if you can play, you can also play new tricks, such as making slides for other children. What a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English at present. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I don't understand my son's Chinese very well, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.
(4) Punish children appropriately, guide them to make progress and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. After we understood, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son, pointing out that it was wrong for him to hit me, and my son admitted his mistake. At the moment, my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is very enjoyable.
Reflections on the third phase of the open class of family education 4
In the autumn of 20__, I was fortunate to be a mother. Since having this baby, it has added a lot of joy to our family.
My child Zhu Yingjia has achieved excellent results in all subjects and made progress in all aspects during her study and life at school in the past two years. Thank the teachers for their hard work and the students for their help and trust. In children's family education, I think it is very important to encourage children in time, guide their interests and cultivate their persistent good study habits.
1. Encourage children and guide their interest in learning.
Learning is a hard work, but also an interesting thing. My child's intelligence is very average. Sometimes she will say: it's so difficult, I can't learn, I can't do it well, and so on. I asked her what you want to be when you grow up. She said that I want to be a doctor, and I said that your idea is good, but being a good doctor requires a lot of knowledge. The Chinese, math and English you are learning at the moment are all foundations. If you don't master the basic knowledge well, you can't do anything well, let alone become a doctor. So she feels that she must finish all her homework at this moment in order to realize her wish. Every little progress she makes, we will praise him: good performance! Great progress! What a great idea! Great imagination! You can be a teacher for your parents! Wait, make her happy and have a sense of accomplishment. If you don't do well enough, I will encourage her to say: I believe you will do better next time. She knows that you should get up immediately when you fall!
Respect and guide children's interests, and constantly encourage children. When children have interest and confidence, it will become easy to learn anything.
2. Cooperate with the school to cultivate children's good study habits.
According to the relevant requirements of the school, cooperate with the arrangement of the school. It is reasonable for the school to require parents to sign every day. This is an effective way to supervise and understand children and an interactive platform to contact schools and families. Parents can keep abreast of school arrangements, learning materials, learning progress, children's performance in school, and what they have done well and what they have not done well. Therefore, we will strictly urge and assist children to finish their homework, and carefully check the children's completion scenes, help her check for leaks, explain what she doesn't understand, and let her strengthen the correction of mistakes. Share the teacher's praise with your child and tell her to make persistent efforts; Analyze the reasons for poor grades with your child and tell her why it is not good and what to do in the future.
Playfulness is a child's nature, which requires supervision and guidance, so that children can develop good study habits such as strictly observing school rules and regulations, paying attention to lectures in class, reviewing carefully after class, finishing homework seriously, thinking independently, asking questions diligently and mastering what they have learned firmly.
3. Insist on after-school study and constantly expand knowledge.
In addition to school homework, we have also made plans for children to study and exercise, such as learning Chinese painting, electronic piano, writing and writing training in a juvenile home, which is carried out alternately in semesters and weekends. At first, she didn't like the electronic piano, but she liked the other three courses (she often said to me, "Mom, I will study these three courses until the teenager comes home." )。 To tell the truth, the electronic piano is quite difficult to learn. I didn't know much about it at first, not to mention that being a child will take a lot of time. I often tell my daughter that everything is difficult at the beginning, but as long as you are willing to work hard, you will certainly learn well. I will tell her the story of grinding iron bars into needles and practice for half an hour every day. Sometimes she still refuses to practice, so I encourage her. Once you learn the electronic piano, you will gain an extra skill, and then you will understand that my efforts today have not been in vain. In this way, through your own efforts, let yourself adapt slowly. The teacher's comments have changed from good at the beginning to excellent now, so she won the title of excellent student in this training. She was also very happy and said to me, "I seem to have a gift for this." I said there must be, otherwise how to get the certificate! I saw an electronic organ in the interest column of her personal file in her product book at the moment.
Children also like reading. There are many of her books at home, including fairy tales, fables and story compositions. We love science, encyclopedias, 100,000 whys, brain teasers and so on. They are very interested in reading. They should read for half an hour before going to bed. She said that if I didn't read these books, I wouldn't be able to sleep.
Knowledge needs to be accumulated continuously. As the ancients said, if you don't accumulate steps, you won't reach a thousand miles, and if you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be a river.
4. Create a good learning atmosphere in the family.
The process of educating children is actually a process of parents' self-improvement, and adults also have many shortcomings. In order to educate future generations, we strive to correct our behavior and constantly improve ourselves. Adults' words and deeds will inadvertently attract the attention of children, and then imitate and try. Therefore, parents should set an example and start from themselves. At ordinary times, we should set an example for our children and let them develop morally and intellectually healthily.
Life is limited and learning is limited. As parents, we should strengthen our study, educate our children scientifically, and strive to make family education and school education grow together! Become an excellent guide on the road of children's life! Create a broader blue sky for the healthy growth of children!
Reflections on the third phase of the open class of family education, 5 pages
Family is the child's first school, parents are the child's first teacher, and they are also role models for children's growth and learning, so good family education plays a vital role in children's life. When children were born, I attached great importance to their family education. Of course, I don't just teach my children to recite a few Tang poems, read a few children's songs and be familiar with a few Chinese characters, but teach them the truth and skills of dealing with people, so that they can develop a person with healthy mind and sound personality. Of course, for children who are only over two years old, vague teaching of abstruse truth can't make him understand the meaning, and children naturally won't understand it, so they need to start from bit by bit in life.
(A) The first is to create a good family environment.
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves. Without family care, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. I have seen many cases, such as children's depravity and numbness, all because of the lack of love in the family. Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family, will he still care about strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children and let them live a happy and worry-free life.
(2) Parents should set an example.
In family education, parents are role models for children, and what parents say and do will have a great influence on children inadvertently. Therefore, when parents ask their children to be polite and respect others, can they think about whether they have done this? I remember once, Han Han made a mistake, and I severely reprimanded him and said some harsh words, saying that if you do this again, I will hit you. I didn't think there was a problem at first, but later he actually learned this sentence and kept saying that I hit you. This makes me very sorry and sad. I regret that I shouldn't have said this to my children before. Sadly, my child said this to my mother. Therefore, when children can still correct, we parents must be cautious and think twice about our every move. No matter how angry you are, think about what effect I will have on the children.
(3) Appropriate rewards and punishments, seeking truth from facts, children losing their temper, cold treatment.
If a child does something right, we should concentrate on praise. If the child does something wrong, we should correct it in time. Reward and punishment should be measured, and enough is enough. Although education experts advocate praising children more at present, I think this should be divided a little because I have personal experience. Han Han played with building blocks when he was one year old. It was a mistake, but I think he praised and encouraged him the first time he played. I tried to promote his progress, but it backfired. Instead, I make mistakes every time I go on stage and become stubborn. No matter what I say, he still doesn't understand, which makes me feel that if I correct him when he plays for the first time, maybe he won't appear at this moment. Therefore, I insist that parents should seek truth from facts when praising their children, and should not praise them blindly. Of course, the criticism is more moderate. If you criticize too much, or even hit your child, your child will gradually become rebellious. The child did something wrong, but still insisted on using reason to persuade him that he could not turn over the old account. The most important thing is that what you say can make children understand and listen. When Han Han did something wrong, I always told him a lot of truth. As a result, he still went his own way. After listening to the recommendation of experts, children can understand what you say better, and don't say some vague truths. And when the child loses his temper willfully, he won't listen to anything you say, so my approach is to treat it coldly and let the child make trouble by himself. Parents can look on coldly. When the child feels that crying is meaningless, when he calms down, we will talk to him about it again, which will make him understand better. If we tell him this and that when he loses his temper, it will only aggravate the development of the situation. If the crying continues, then we can only take him away from the scene and distract the child, which may be better.
Let children learn to respect others.
Let children learn to respect others. First of all, parents should learn to respect their children. This is my consistent insistence. When Han Han was very young, I could squat down and listen to his advice. Some people may say what such a young child can think, but it is not. Although the child is young, he is still an individual. He has thoughts, and we should respect him more. For example, Han Han always brings toys when he goes out. At first, his grandfather always stopped him from bringing toys, but after a long time, he didn't go out. Although the toy is put down, he will still cry for a long time. Now think about it, crying at that time may be because of dissatisfaction with the disrespect of adults. Then I discussed it with Han Han. At first, I discussed with him what toys to take out. Gradually, he took the initiative to discuss with me and became obedient. Even outside, when Han Han is with his children, I will teach him to respect others. For example, when he saw other children's toys and wanted to play with them, I taught him to discuss with them. "When you are not playing, can you give me the toy for a while?" When other children want his toys, I will teach him, "Give the toy to this child for a while, will you?" Everything depends on the child's own wishes, and the wishes of adults cannot be imposed. I've made such a mistake before. When I was playing with my friend's children, I saw my friend's children crying and asking Han Han for toys. I always grab the toys that Han Han gave to other children without thinking, so Han Han got into the habit of grabbing the toys and crying as soon as he took them off while sleeping. I think that's when I hurt his self-esteem, and my disrespect for him has caused him serious consequences, although at this moment, with the dilution of time, Han Han.
(5) Let children learn to do things by themselves as soon as possible and cultivate their working habits.
When Han Han just knew how to sit, we had put him on a stool to have dinner with his family. Although he couldn't eat by himself at that time, we insisted on showing him how adults eat, so Han Han slowly learned to eat by himself and learned to eat with chopsticks very early. As long as he can do things at home, he insists on doing them himself, such as sweeping the floor, washing vegetables, moving stools with chopsticks and so on. Many parents think that what children can do at such a young age is getting busier and busier. In fact, it is certain that he can't do well, but as long as he participates, if you always stop him from working, he will feel that his mother doesn't need me, and over time he will no longer be willing to do it. Moreover, the cultivation of work habits will make him cherish the fruits of other people's labor more, such as not putting his toys around, not littering and so on.
(6) Create a learning environment for children and cultivate their study habits.
At one time, the family watched more TV, and Han Han watched more TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So at this moment, my family learned to read, even if they didn't, so Han Han also learned to read. Although the time is not long, the habit is gradually formed, and it will be better to accumulate bit by bit. As the saying goes, it is better to go to Wan Li Road than to study in thousands of books, so I will take my children out for a walk whenever I have time. Learning knowledge in nature can make them better understand. Although education experts don't recommend children to learn ancient poems of Tang poetry at such a young age, I think reading these poems can cultivate children's aesthetic feeling and sense of rhythm, although children still can't understand them. As for children's songs and music, it is certainly beneficial to watch and listen more. The point is that Han Han likes these very much. I think it is most important to cultivate hobbies.
(7) People who train children don't love children.
Han Han's father is often in other places, and Han Han doesn't see his father several times a year, so my mother should be a good mother and the protagonist of a good father. So I always want to cultivate Han Han's manly momentum intentionally or unintentionally, but I spoil him and spoil him. For example, when Han Han fell, I never helped him up. I always encourage him to fall and get up again, and then pat off the dirt. If it's broken, even if it hurts, it won't show. Just tell him it's okay. So at this moment, Han Han fell down. As long as it's not serious, he hardly cries. Instead, he comforted me and said, "Mom, I'm fine!" " Although it seems that I am cold-blooded, I think I did the right thing, especially for a boy, we must cultivate his strong character and not be cowardly.
The above is my family education experience. Again, every child is an independent individual, so every child has his own unique personality. There is no universal education, only every parent keeps exploring and practicing in family education. Some people say that children are the second life of parents, and parents also grow up in the process of children's growth. Let's grow up with them!
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