Stories of celebrity mothers educating their children
Meng Mu
Mencius' name is Monk, and Mencius' mother is Zhang Sansheng. The allusions about Meng Mu mainly include: Meng Mu moved three times and Meng Mu broke the rafters, which are collectively called "choosing neighbors to break the rafters". Meng Mu's three moves changed Mencius' learning environment. Since then, Mencius has been diligent and progressive and has always been a great scholar. In the three-character sutra, "Meng Mu is in the front, choose neighbors; The phrase "no learning, no skill, no loom" was written according to the above legend. In feudal society, Meng Mu was regarded as a model of a good wife and mother.
1, Meng Mu moved three times.
Mencius lived near the grave with his mother when he was a child, and he learned to cry with grave-sweepers sooner or later. Meng Mu was afraid of delaying his son's studies, so he moved to live near the slaughterhouse. Mencius also learned to kill. Meng Mu moved again and lived near Gong Xue. Mencius then learned etiquette and cultural knowledge from the people of Gong Xue. In order to find a good learning environment for his son, Meng Mu moved to his home three times, which became a much-told story for later generations. Meng Mu is the first person in the history of China to see that the environment has a subtle influence on people. (Biography of the Heroine)
2. Buy meat jiaozi
Meng Mu not only attached importance to the influence of objective environment on young Mencius, but also attached great importance to the enlightenment and education of his words and deeds. Buying Meat tells the story of Meng Mu's moral education for Mencius through his words and deeds. Once, a neighbor was sharpening his knife and preparing to kill a pig. Mencius was very curious after seeing it, so he ran to ask his mother, "What are the neighbors doing?" "Kill the pig." "Why kill pigs?" Meng Mu smiled and said casually, "For you." Just after saying this, Meng Mu regretted it, thinking that my neighbor didn't kill pigs for his children, but I lied to him. Isn't this teaching him to lie? To make up for this mistake, Meng Mu really bought his neighbor's pork for Mencius.
3. Loongson Crusher
"Breaking the Machine and Teaching Children" tells the story of Meng Mu encouraging Mencius not to give up halfway. When Mencius was a teenager, he did not study hard at first. On one occasion, when Mencius came home from school, Meng Mu was sitting in front of the machine and weaving. She asked her son, "Can you recite the chapter" Learning "in The Analects of Confucius?" Mencius replied, "I can recite," Meng Mu said happily. "You recite it to me." But Mencius always recited this sentence over and over again: "Confucius said:? Study from time to time, not to mention? " ? Meng Mu was angry and sad when he heard these words. He raised a knife and hissed at the newly woven cloth, and the twine fell to the ground. Mencius saw his mother cut off the cloth she had worked so hard to weave. He was afraid and didn't understand why. He asked her what had happened. Meng Mu taught his son, "Learning is like weaving. If you don't concentrate on your study, it's like a rag that you can't pick up again. If you study hard from time to time and often review the old and learn new things, you will never learn skills. " Speaking of sadness, Meng Mu sobbed. Mencius was very moved. From then on, he firmly remembered his mother's words, got up early and studied hard. Meng Mu's teaching methods had a great influence on the growth of Mencius and the development of his thoughts. The good environment made Mencius influenced by etiquette habits very early, and cultivated his upright character and tenacious and diligent spirit of studying, which laid a solid and stable foundation for his future research and development of Confucianism.
Mahogany
Tao Kan, a famous Eastern Jin Dynasty soldier. Tao Kan's mother, Chen (243-3 18), was born in Gulaozhou, now Poyang County, Jiangxi Province. She was one of the four great wives in ancient China. Tao Mu's story of leading by example and raising children to become talents has been celebrated through the ages.
1, intercept Yan Bin.
Tao Kan is a lonely child with a poor family. Tao Mu endured humiliation and made a living by spinning linen and weaving, and supported Tao Kan to study. Tao Mu often tells his son that "making friends is more important than himself". Make friends, make friends with people who are better than yourself. ) The ancient book contains: Fan Kui, who is famous in the same county, praised his filial piety and stayed at home. When the ice and snow piled up, the chat room was empty, with soldiers, horses and servants. Kanmu Kan said in Chen Shi's language, "If you stay abroad, I will think for myself." Chen's hair is on the ground, and the next one is two beards. It sells a few tons of rice, and the pillars at home are all cut and half paid, so I recommend him to be a horse skin. In the evening, it is fine food again, and there are no followers. Knowing what Chen had done, Wei Xiao was deeply ashamed of his talent and said, "If it weren't for this mother, this child wouldn't have been born." Wei Xiao went to Luoyang, so he was called Yang Fang, et al. He had a good reputation. Tao Mu stopped the guests, recommended them to feed the horses, and discussed them in the village, thinking that they were virtuous. In order to show off this virtuous mother, the government specially set up a square for Tao Mu's residence, named Yan Bin Square, and the bridge next to the house is Dehua Bridge. After learning about Raozhou, Fan Zhongyan of Beining ordered a huge monument to the former site of Yan Bin Square to be erected at the bridgehead of Dehua for people to pay tribute to, so as to publicize Tao Mu's deeds of "intercepting Yan Bin".
2. close the altar and retreat.
Tao Kan was a junior official in charge of fishery production in Xunyang when he was young. When teenagers go out, remember their mother's teachings. Tao Kan is conscientious, devoted to his duties, and kind to others, which is quite popular. Once, his subordinates saw that he was having a hard time, so they brought him an altar of bad fish from the pickled fish shop to eat. Tao Kan, a filial mother, always eats bad fish, so she took advantage of her colleague's business trip in Poyang to give her peace of mind with a message from this jar of bad fish. When Tao Mu received the token, he was very satisfied with Kan's filial piety. So he casually asked the token giver, "How much does it cost in Xunyang?" The guest didn't understand the meaning and boasted, "Hey, does this bad fish need to be bought?" Just go to the workshop below and get it. Aunt likes it very much. I'll bring you more altars next time. "TaoMu hearing this, the mood suddenly changed, happy, and worried. She sealed the mouth of the broken fish jar again and asked the guests to take the fish back to Tao Kan with a letter from her son. There are harsh words in this book. It says, "Being an official is not only useless, but also increases my worries. Tao Kan felt very guilty when he received the responsibility letter from the bad fish and his mother. She was deeply disappointed with her mother's teaching and vowed not to do anything that worried her mother. From then on, Tao Kan was an upright official, with a clear distinction between public and private affairs. Until his retirement in his later years, he meticulously locked the generals' ceremonial ceremonies and warehouses and handed them over to the public bit by bit. Tao Kan's achievements in life are saturated with Tao Muchen's words and deeds. Help others for free.
Oumu
Ouyang Xiu (1007- 1072) was a famous writer and historian in the Northern Song Dynasty. Ouyang Xiu's mother is a very thrifty housewife. His father died when he was 4 years old, and he grew up with his widowed mother. Ouyang Xiu's father is a local official, honest and hospitable. When he was alive, his family was large and his economy was well off. After his death, his family gradually became poor, and later there was no room or ridge on the ground. It is conceivable that orphans and widows live in such a situation.
Ouyang Xiu's mother is a strong-willed person. Her family is not poor, and she works hard on her own and raises her children wholeheartedly. When Ouyang Xiu was five or six years old, his mother taught him to read and write, and taught him the truth of being a man. Having no money to buy pens and paper, he used reed poles instead, spread the sand on the ground into paper and taught Ouyang Xiu to write one by one. Ouyang Xiu, who is one year older, is becoming more and more sensible. He is considerate of his mother and tries his best to share the housework while reading. Although Ouyang Xiu is sensible, he doesn't understand how his mother has such great determination and strength to raise herself. On one occasion, Ouyang Xiu asked about it. Mother said affectionately, "After your father died, I was able to be widowed and lonely because I knew your father's noble character. I love him and you, and I am determined to train you to be like your father. For you, I can eat no matter how hard I suffer. " Ouyang Xiu sobbed and said to his mother, "I must carry on my father's legacy and be a noble person." Later, Ouyang Xiu became an official and served as a consultant in political affairs. For three years, Li Qing was demoted for actively supporting Fan Zhongyan and defending the new law. Ouyang Xiu's mother said: "Being demoted for justice cannot be said to be disgraceful. Our family is used to poverty. As long as you have no burden in your heart and keep your spirit, I will be happy. "
The story of a famous father educating his children.
Qian Jibo is very strict with his son.
Qian Jibo is a master of Chinese studies and the father of scholar and writer Qian Zhongshu.
Qian Jibo is very strict with his son. When Qian Zhongshu was sixteen, he also gave him a beating. 1926 From the autumn to the following summer, Qian Jibo went north to Tsinghua to teach, but did not return to Wuxi during the winter vacation. At this time, Qian Zhongshu is studying in middle school. Instead of reviewing textbooks, he plunged into the world of novels. Father came back to ask his homework, but Qian Zhongshu failed the exam and was beaten.
1929, after Qian Zhongshu was admitted to Tsinghua University Foreign Languages Department, Qian Jibo often wrote to him. A letter said, "Being a benevolent gentleman is more important than being a scholar." Then a letter said: "Now foreign things say that your article is better than mine, and I am glad that you have learned from me;" However, let's just say that you have always been loyal to me and practiced for me. I am particularly comforted. "I hope Qian Zhongshu can be" indifferent to his ambition, quiet and far-reaching ". "I hope you are Zhuge Gong, Tao Yuanming; Unlike you, Hu Shizhi and Xu Zhimo ".
Qian Jibo kept his distance from the New Culture Movement at that time and devoted himself to studying Chinese studies. He warned Qian Zhongshu in this way because of a Confucian cultural standpoint.
Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.
Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Alliance. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of the Kuomintang and chairman of the Ningxia provincial government.
1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. " Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "Official is not allowed to get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to follow the example of batch firing and distribute the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said, "Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. "
Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. Killed by Kuomintang reactionaries at the age of 39.
The godson of the president is independent.
Former US President Ronald Reagan is not only famous, but also rich. But he strictly requires children to stand on their own feet and never let them rely on their parents. After his son lost his job, he lived on welfare while looking for a job.
4. Lu Xun's godson let nature take its course
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, namely Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of dystocia. When the doctor asked Lu Xun whether to raise people or children, he replied decisively: "Raise people." As a result, mother and child are safe.
In the process of his son's growth, Lu Xun basically carried out the idea of "how can we be fathers now" and made him "completely liberated". He said, "What I take for granted now is nothing but love." According to Zhou Haiying's Seventy Years of Lu Xun and Me, Lu Xun's educational model is "let nature take its course, try not to give him too many blows, or even disobey his love, unless it is extremely unbearable and unreasonable". One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school anyway, and Lu Xun spanked him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote to his mother and explained, "It was loud during the war, but it didn't hurt."
Stories of parents educating their children at all times and in all countries.
Sima Guang taught his son to be frugal.
Sima Guang was a minister and historian in the Northern Song Dynasty. His life is not only very frugal, but also an important part of his godson's success. He pays great attention to educating children not to be extravagant and use it carefully.
He often said: "Clothes cover the cold all one's life, and food fills the stomach", but he "dare not change customs in the name of pollution". He taught his son that adequate food leads to luxury, while abundance leads to luxury. In order to let his son know the importance of advocating thrift, he wrote an article about thrift in the form of a letter from home. In his article, he strongly opposes the extravagance of life, strongly advocates frugality and simplicity, and clearly points out that it is really unacceptable for the ancients to be virtuous and the present to be frugal. He warned his son: "luxury leads to more desires." If a gentleman wants more, he will be greedy for money, and he will waste his way and suffer quickly; If the villain wants more, he asks for more, and he loses his family. "
Sima Guang also constantly warned his children: study hard, work hard and be thrifty. With these moral qualities, we can cultivate our self-cultivation, maintain family order, and even rule the country. Under his education, his son Sima Kang knew the importance of thrift and self-discipline from an early age. He used to be a school bookkeeper, a teacher and a lecturer. He is also known for his erudition, honesty and frugality.
Madame Curie's tutoring art
Madame Curie was originally from Poland, and later became a physicist and chemist in France. She has been busy with scientific research all her life. But she is very good at seizing the time, educating her children from an early age, and grasping the age advantage of children's intellectual development. For example, when her daughter was less than 1 year old, Madame Curie asked her to start the so-called "children's intellectual gymnastics" training, let her get in touch with strangers extensively, go to the zoo to see animals, and let her play with cats; Let her go to the park to see green grass, blue sky, white clouds, colorful plants and people; Let her shoot water in the water and let her feel the beauty of nature. When the children were older, Madame Curie began artistic "intellectual gymnastics", teaching children to sing children's songs and tell fairy tales. When she is older, she will start intellectual training and handcrafting, such as exercising, calligraphy and painting identification, playing the piano, painting and clay sculpture. She will also let her grow plants, flowers and vegetables in the garden by herself, and will take time out to walk with them, telling her many interesting things when plants and animals walk, such as how seeds grow in flowers, how rats and moles make holes, where to find rabbit nests and so on. Her education should start from the real thing as far as possible, and be updated every day to improve children's interest. She also teaches children to ride bicycles and cook. Carrying out all-round early "intellectual gymnastics" training for children not only increases their intelligence, but also cultivates their various abilities, enhances their self-confidence and temper their character.
Wang Xizhi advised his son to study.
Wang Xianzhi, a calligrapher in Jin Dynasty, studied calligraphy with his father Wang Xizhi since childhood. Once, he asked his father to teach him the secret of calligraphy. Wang Xizhi didn't answer directly, but pointed to eighteen water tanks in the yard and said, The secret lies in these water tanks. You'll know after you write about the water in these tanks.
Wang Xianzhi refuses to accept, thinking that although he is small, his handwriting is already very good. He is determined to practice the basic skills again and show it to his father. He imitates his father's handwriting every day and practices horizontal, vertical, dot, left and right strokes. It took him two years to show his handwriting to his father. Father smiled without a word, and mother said, "It's a bit like iron." Wang Xianzhi practiced all kinds of hooks for two years, and then showed them to his father, who kept silent. His mother said, "It's a bit like a silver hook." .
Wang Xianzhi began to practice complete words. After four years of practice, he showed his father the words he had written. After reading it, Wang Xizhi added a little under the word "big" written by his son, and it became the word "too" because he thought the word "big" written by his only son was too tight and too loose. Mother looked at Wang Xianzhi's handwriting, sighed and said, "My son has been practicing calligraphy for 3,000 days. Only this is like your father's handwriting! " Hearing this, Wang Xianzhi was completely convinced. Since then, he has practiced writing harder.
Wang Xizhi was very happy to see his son practicing calligraphy hard. One day, he quietly walked behind his son, suddenly pulled out the pen in his hand, but did not move, so he praised his son and said, "This son is going to be famous again." Wang Xizhi knew that his son had a strong hand in writing, so he began to cultivate him carefully. Later, Wang Xianzhi really finished writing Eighteen Tanks of Water and became a famous calligrapher like his father.
Wang Xizhi advised his son to study quietly. Wang Xizhi didn't preach to his son, but let Wang Xianzhi gradually understand the endless truth of learning, and set up a rigorous learning attitude from an early age.
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