When children reach puberty, they will enter a rebellious period, especially girls, which requires parents to treat them calmly. Children can be exaggerated during the rebellious period. Parents should learn to listen more, communicate more with their children, and reduce their rebellious psychology. For example, look at problems from the perspective of children and communicate like friends.

1, learn to listen to your child's thoughts. Parents should observe their children's behaviors and listen to their voices.

2. Let children express bad thoughts, bad emotions and grievances. Only by getting the care and respect of her parents can she calm down her sense of helplessness in the process of growing up.

3. Look at the problem from the child's perspective. Don't always put on a condescending posture.

4, this will only enhance the rebellious psychology of girls. From the children's point of view, think about whether we have made mistakes in the process of educating children and find better educational methods.

5. Communicate with children like friends. In the process of communicating with children, we should avoid preaching to them, but share their true thoughts as friends.

6. Tell the truth and change roles. Only by knowing the child's true thoughts can she grow up better.

7. Communicate with children calmly. In the process of communicating with children, we must keep calm, avoid using blunt methods to communicate with children, and don't rush to beat and scold children.

8. Children who are deeply empathetic, especially girls, are fragile and need to feel her emotions from her perspective, so that they can communicate well and get good results.

9. Give your child an alternative, tell a story and come up with an idea. Let her think about whether she needs this plan, express her thoughts, discuss it well and ease her mood.

10, affirm children's needs and prevent emotional escalation. Understand your child's needs well, so that you can get a good solution. Remember to affirm your child in the process.