1, treat children as friends. Establish an equal relationship with children, approach and understand children with a peer mentality, and let children feel that they have a common language with their parents, and are willing to open their hearts, communicate sincerely, and talk to you. Without a sense of distance, they can communicate better, communicate more and fight less.

2. Guide children to read more books. Let children calm down in reading, understand the true meaning of life from books, and make their thoughts more wise and mature.

3. Life experience. Appropriate tolerance for children's words and deeds, so that children can understand right and wrong in the process of speaking and learning, distinguish right from wrong, rather than simply pointing fingers or accusing, which is more likely to trigger children's rebellious psychology and intensify contradictions.

4. Tolerance does not mean connivance. Parents can treat some minor problems and mistakes that are inevitable in their children's growth with a tolerant attitude, or gently point them out, without making a fuss over a meal. For some serious principled mistakes, parents must be rational, help their children realize the mistakes, correct them in time, and avoid making big mistakes.