Few children are quiet and docile on their first day in kindergarten. The reason is that children are accompanied by their families from birth to the first day of kindergarten. When he suddenly leaves the safe area of his family, he will definitely feel insecure and uneasy, so he will feel distressed. But there are children who don't cry on the first day of kindergarten. Kindergarten teachers concluded that these children generally come from the following three types of families.

Case:

As a kindergarten teacher, I have a lot of experience I am also fully aware of the influence of family environment on a child's personality characteristics. In our kindergarten, Hui Hui left a particularly deep impression on me, because Hui Hui didn't cry or make trouble on the first day of kindergarten. According to my years of educational experience, Hui Hui's mother must be a gentle and smiling mother. This is also true, because Hui Hui's mother will greet us with a smile when she comes to see Hui Hui off to school every day. I have to say that the family environment is really important.

Some children can see at a glance that they come from a harmonious family, while others can see that their parents' feelings may not be good enough. This is all based on their performance in kindergarten. Children who are smart on the first day of kindergarten often come from families with strong happiness, because the children educated by this family are full of security.

1, a patient's family

Patience is a particularly good quality. People who are patient are more careful and have more delicate feelings. Under the education of a pair of parents who are particularly patient, children will be more patient, such children will be very organized, and such children will be more receptive to new things. The reason is that before accepting a new thing, his parents have patiently told him why he wants to accept this new thing and what are the benefits of accepting this new thing? Just like going to kindergarten, patient parents have told their children before they go to kindergarten that this is a place to receive education and make them better in the future, so after they go to kindergarten, they will definitely not cry on the first day.

2. Warm and friendly family

Tenderness and love are the most powerful ways to deal with everything, and warmth and love are of course the best ways to educate children. Children who have been raised with love since childhood are often more considerate and compassionate. Such a child loves to laugh, such a child is sunny, and such a child will not cry on the first day of kindergarten. Because at home, his loving family environment has done enough psychological construction for him. His parents, full of warmth and love, also gave him enough sense of security, let him know clearly in his heart that kindergarten is the place where his parents educate him and treat him well, so his heart will not reject kindergarten, but will yearn for it, so such a child will not cry on the first day of kindergarten.

3. Understand the accompanying families

The most lasting expression of my love, is choosing to stay by your side. Parental companionship is the best love for children, which is more precious than anything else. Because of the full companionship of parents, children's feelings will become more delicate and fuller, and their psychology will be more sunny, positive and secure. In this state of mind, children will be smart when they go to kindergarten.

Never underestimate the influence of family environment on a child's growth. What kind of family can educate what kind of children, so family atmosphere is very important. A patient family, a warm and loving family, and a family that knows how to accompany can educate more well-behaved children and better children. Therefore, parents must find the right way and the right direction to better cultivate their children.