China's parents tend to be conservative. They are ashamed to talk about "sex", let alone their child Kan Kan. Even if I feel the need for education, I can avoid it myself by putting the blame on schools and teachers. But from the point of view of psychologists, they advocate that active sex education for children is the necessity of enlightenment and the guarantee of children's mental health.

Family is the classroom.

"Sex, parents are teachers, and family is the classroom", so it is necessary to carry out active sex education for children, which is also the guarantee of their mental health.

Five periods

Before 18 years old, children's sexual psychological development can be divided into five periods: oral sex before 3 years old, sexual obscurity at 3 years old, school age at 6-8 years old, prepubescent at 10 years old and adolescence.

critical period

The sex hazy period of 3 years old is the key period of sex education. To avoid the deviation of children's sexual psychology and behavior, parents should give a positive answer to their children's questions about sex at this time, and don't perfunctory.

Out of mom's arms

It is also an important part of sex education to let children get rid of their mothers' arms gradually. Children, especially boys, are too attached to their mothers, which will affect their psychological development. It is suggested that "children should be separated from their parents when they are about 3 years old."

Make good use of touch and pictures to educate.

At different ages, make good use of touching and looking at pictures for education.