? How to educate disobedient dolls? ? 1. Communicate with children more and be their friends.
Communicate with children more, treat them as friends and help them overcome the difficulties they encounter, so as to win their trust and enter their hearts. Children are naturally willing to listen to their parents.
? 2. Learn to let go and leave room for children.
Give children proper free space, don't care too much, and don't let children "obey everything." ? In other words, parents should not let their children do everything according to their own ideas, and let them become robots that passively accept no opinions. Such a child will not have much hope in the future. Therefore, parents should learn to let go, give their children some autonomy, and don't bind their children everywhere and "do whatever they want."
? 3. Encourage more and more blame
When getting along with children, encourage criticism, replace "can you do this" with "I hope you can do this", choose a way that is more acceptable to children, be good at observing children's bright spots, praise and encourage children more, and make children more confident and easier to accept their parents' suggestions.
? 4. Respect children's feelings and needs
As parents, we can help our children in time when they need it. This is timely help. If the children don't ask, we will take the initiative to impose them. This is called excessive love and control. Therefore, parents must understand and respect their children's feelings, not control them.
? Look up at the child
It is very important to educate children. Some parents are impatient and often make a hullabaloo about without knowing it. This will make children have resistance from the beginning, and it is difficult to achieve the expected results. Parents should learn to treat their children equally, communicate with them through dialogue rather than reprimand, and let them relax their vigilance and accept their parents' behavior.
? 6. Learn to guide.
Guidance is mentioned many times in family education, that is, parents should learn to guide and inspire. When a child makes a mistake, too much criticism and criticism from parents will not only make the child understand why he is wrong, but will lead to the child's rebellious psychology. But if parents can inspire their children with questions and metaphors, the results will be more obvious. ? So direct is not necessarily effective, not necessarily appropriate. Correct guidance can give children the greatest inspiration.