How to implement "happy education"? Discover the "source of happiness" of children and make education happy. Then we should carry out happiness education. In addition to not fighting for children, we should also find their happiness. Secondly, if you want to get happiness, you must find the source of happiness for your children.
Self-discipline can bring freedom.
This sentence is very popular, and self-discipline can bring freedom. Just like the law, if it is not bound by laws and regulations, it is not freedom, but chaos. For everyone and every child, the process of self-discipline is very hard, but we can find the pleasure of freedom through hard roads.
Abide by the institutional education in the big environment
I saw a documentary in the daily life of primary school students in Finland, Shanghai and Hong Kong. Among them, the curriculum pressure in Hong Kong is the heaviest. In contrast, Finland is a very free country and children can go home in the afternoon. Play games. However, as a famous education in Finland, there is no concept of name between countries, and there is almost no difference between schools. The responsibility of the school is to help students discover their own characteristics. Many viewers can't wait for their children to receive training and education in Finland, but I don't know that Finland's total population of 5 million, limited population and developed economy can certainly let children enjoy such an educational environment. China has a large population and limited educational resources. "Finnish education" is not necessarily a good thing in such a hobby country.
Let children enjoy the learning process.
Why do many parents think it is hard for children to do more exercises? They mainly watch children do the same exercises. It may be done ten times, but this repetitive work can help children remember knowledge firmly. On the basis of the foundation, children may challenge some variants and have problems, but this is not the process of learning. Isn't this the process of letting children enjoy learning?
Persist in the result of happiness
A lot of repetitive work seems too difficult "at home, but it only lasts, and it can get better results." If you don't insist, you'd better choose not to make it easy for the time being. Now that we have chosen the beginning, we will continue to see the result. If you don't find an hour every hour and stick to it for three to five years, your child will get happy results.
Happy education seems simple, but it is more difficult to implement.
Happy education is not "fishing for three days and drying the net for two days"
In the process of interest, it is actually no problem to respect children's preferences. For example, children are interested in learning to dance, and then let them dance. But if the child skips a week and tells you that I don't like dancing, I want to learn to draw, that is to say, we say "fishing for three days and drying the net for two days." This kind of playful and old people's habit can't be treated, so we need to adhere to a happy education.
Happy education is not full of yourself.
Finally, learning within the scope of interest can make children have their own opinions. But for school study, we can't let your children learn the language and forget the math and English courses. These cultural education cannot be learned from children's own preferences, but needs to be fully developed.
In the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, you can't calculate the score because of your child's polarization. We also hope that your children can overcome our weaknesses and develop in an all-round way.
Happy education is to make children suffer.
Happy education is not a place where children can't bear her efforts and can't degenerate. Happy education still needs to let children learn to face failures and setbacks. They are not arrogant when they are happy, but they have the ability to stand up when they are sad. A happy education also requires parents to let their children go to different stages of life.
Happy education is to help children who want to give up.
It's actually important to stick to it. But those who are successful, they can continue to insist on others when they give up. Persistence is a quality and an attitude towards life. Parents want to help their children, want to give up, and let their children stick to it, and they will see different results.
For people, parents don't want their children to be happy, but happiness comes at a price, and children need to learn to give and persist. Parents can only help their children know the truth, not carelessness, not depression. This is not the true meaning of happiness.