1. It is very important to reflect and summarize in time during the learning process.
When correcting students' homework every day, I find such a problem: many students make mistakes in the same wrong question three times and five times. I told them this wrong problem last time and explained the skills of doing it. Two or three days later, they made the same mistake in another group of exercises. What is the reason? I think it's because children don't have enough reflection and summary after finishing their homework. Just treating homework as homework, not learning from it in time, makes the efficiency of doing homework very low. My suggestion is that I would rather do one question with high quality than do ten questions with low efficiency. The practice of special-grade teachers is very worth learning for students.
"To make children like learning, we should tell them how to save time and effort. For example, the strategy of doing homework is to do five "no's": review your homework carefully before doing it; Don't start your homework until you have formed a correct solution; In the process of doing homework, don't look through books and notes; After finishing a topic, I didn't sort out the problem-solving ideas of this topic and didn't do the next homework; Don't start the next homework until this homework is corrected.
After these five "no's" are put forward, the speed of children's homework is slow, but it is efficient. Doing a problem can top four or five, and it is achieved. Therefore, if parents let their children feel that learning can save time and effort, I believe such suggestions are easy for children to accept. "
If you don't sort out, reflect and summarize the exercises, the wrong questions will always be wrong. If you don't regard the wrong questions as steps and opportunities for progress, your children will never make progress in their long-term study. Just like a person who doesn't make a mistake the first time and doesn't learn from the experience, makes the same mistake the second time and the third time. Be sure to pay attention to the wrong questions and be good at using them. After doing wrong exercises, it's best to sum up and reflect in time, learn from experience and lessons, find out the gap of knowledge points, and then check for gaps, so as to accumulate knowledge and improve your ability.
2. A good student cannot do without the word "diligence". He should take notes, set wrong questions, think, reflect and summarize frequently.
"Success is due to diligence, and failure is due to luxury." The word "diligence" is the foundation of self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world. Heaven rewards diligence, diligence can make up for it, and doing a good job in learning is also an excellent quality.
Zeng Guofan: "Nothing is difficult in the world."
Zeng Guofan said that there must be five diligence for the official: "One diligence: the road is dangerous and far away, and the body has been tested; When you are in a difficult situation, you can taste it yourself. Second, be diligent: when you meet someone, you must look closely; After another article, it will be reviewed repeatedly. Third, diligence: things that are easy to discard, pick up at will; Things that are easy to forget are recorded in essays. Fourth, be diligent: treat colleagues and persuade each other; Treat subordinates and then discipline them again and again. 5. Diligence: When you are sincere, the stone is also open; After hard work, ghosts and miracles have passed. "
Although Zeng Guofan's "Five Diligences" is the way to be an official, it is also the way to live.
He stipulates that he must insist on reading no less than ten pages of history books every day and writing no less than half an hour after meals. Zeng Guofan said, "People's temperament is hard to change because they are born. Only reading can change their temperament. The ancients were familiar with each other and said that reading can turn bones. "
He started to keep a diary at the age of 29, and almost never stopped in his life. Even though he was blind in his right eye in his later years, he insisted on writing, and even the day before his death, his hands were still shaking and he was still writing.
Zeng Guofan once wrote a letter to his second son, saying, "I am still young. I must not be greedy and lazy. No matter everyone's family, scholars, farmers and businessmen, they are diligent and frugal, and there is no disappointment; Arrogant and tired, invincible. "
A word "diligence" has made many outstanding celebrities.
"I was fifty-three years ago, 1965. Since I started to work, I have kept a diary every day for more than half a century without interruption.
I can keep a diary for decades. First, I rely on perseverance, perseverance and habits. Second, be responsible for yourself, your family and children, the people around you and your career.
I have kept a diary for decades, which is the main purpose. "-Zhao Zhongxin, a family education expert
3. Give your child an achievable goal.
"For middle school students, the best state is to have goals in life and do things in a planned way. The practice of successful education is to start from a low starting point and take small steps to make it easy for children to experience success. " -Sun Yunxiao, a famous family education expert.
The meaning of "low starting point, small steps to run": give children an achievable goal. The goal is too high for children to reach, and it is easy to have fear and frustration. If the goal is too low, it is not conducive to the growth and progress of children.
For example, if the child's English score this month is 60, then parents can ask him to take 6 1-65 in the next exam. Don't say you want to improve me by 20 to 30 points at once. This is absolutely impossible, especially for middle school students and high school students. Such a goal is impossible to achieve. It is useless to set such a goal, and it will also make children feel frustrated and make them lose confidence.
Any child's progress is gradual, and it is impossible to eat a fat man in one bite. This is the same as what we adults do. If the leader arranges you to finish a week's work in one day, can you finish it? Can you do it? The same is true for children. The goals set for him should be appropriate, neither too high nor too low.
Setting an achievable goal is to make children have confidence in their own learning, so that children will believe in their own abilities. He believes that he will make progress step by step through hard work, which is very beneficial to improve his grades.
It is very important to cultivate children's interest in learning.
"Without interest, there is no real learning, because with successful experience, children will be interested in learning"-Sun Yunxiao
"The best education method is to stimulate interest and cultivate habits. Without interest, there is no motivation, and without habit, there is no guarantee. Therefore, the best development situation is to keep a child in a state of high interest and variety, and develop good habits in hard work. " _ _ _ Sun Yunxiao
Interest is the best teacher. If a child is interested in a subject, he will take the initiative to explore and study it himself, and he will never feel that learning is very hard, let alone boring. Interest is the best motivation for children to learn!
Take learning English as an example. The main means to stimulate children's interest in learning English are listening to English songs, watching English cartoons and movies, and keeping a diary in English. These methods are especially popular with students. Parents can choose the appropriate method according to their children's age. Pupils are suitable for watching English cartoons, English short stories, fairy tales and playing English games.
Junior and senior high school students are suitable for watching English movies, listening to English songs, watching English news, keeping English diaries and chatting with friends in English.
"Parents should keep their children active in the learning process. Only by stimulating your hobbies can you enter a virtuous circle. " Sun Yunxiao
Parents should give more encouragement to their children and make them full of confidence and hope.
When dealing with children's learning problems, there must be appropriate ways to communicate with children. Protect children's interest and confidence in learning. A father's practice of tutoring children's homework is very good, which is worth learning and learning from parents.
Pat Ting Hung is in the fourth grade of primary school, and his Chinese performance is OK. Mathematics is her biggest trouble, especially when it comes to application problems. She could understand the example given by the teacher at that time, but she didn't understand it when doing her homework. After returning home, she asked her father, who is an engineer, for advice. Dad told her twice, but she still didn't understand. The mother was worried and blamed the child for being slow. Dad paced back and forth in the study, as if thinking about this problem. About five minutes later, the father said to his daughter, "I remember when I was in primary school, I usually had to say a question six times before I could understand it." Let's start again. " Dad patiently said it three times again, and the daughter finally understood. Dad said, "You were faster than your father when you were a child. As long as you are not afraid of difficulties and keep thinking, you will definitely surpass your father in the future. " "Really?" Pat Ting Hung although a little don't believe it, but the expression of joy hung on her brow.
Don't underestimate Mr. Ding's words. Pat Ting Hung's mother was secretly surprised and ashamed of her impatience and reprimand. More importantly, when Pat Ting Hung encounters a problem, he is not afraid to ask others again and again, and he is not afraid to think hard again and again until he understands the problem. 1 1 years later, she was the only one of her primary school classmates who was admitted to graduate school.
I believe many children have this phenomenon about Ding Hong's difficulty in learning mathematics. Many parents will not have the patience and wisdom of Teacher Ding. Some fathers may gradually raise their voices, reprimand loudly, or even hit their children, scaring them out of asking questions or even losing confidence. As for the educational art like Teacher Ding, it is really commendable and worth learning and learning from parents.
Students with poor academic performance need the help of parents and teachers most, and need encouragement rather than punishment. If the results are not satisfactory, parents will scold or even punish them, which will undoubtedly make the children worse and worse and fall into a vicious circle step by step. ...
The successful education advocated by President Liu Jinghai is to turn a "poor student" into a "good student" and a "junk school" into a "star school", which has created a miracle in the history of contemporary education. He has a famous saying: "The first important thing in the process of education is that success is greater than failure. When the experience is more successful, the child's self-concept and self-discipline are stronger, and the self-confidence is stronger, which is the key factor for success. "
Compared with failure, success is a more important mother of success!
6. Pay attention to the problems existing in learning and cultivate problem awareness. The problem is a good opportunity for progress and a ladder for children. No problem is the biggest problem.
It is actually a good thing to find some problems in your study. By finding problems, children can find the weak links of their own knowledge, and then make progress slowly by checking for leaks. The existence of no problems is not conducive to children's learning and progress.
Just like a patient, if the doctor can't find out the cause of the patient, then he can't prescribe the right medicine, and the disease will naturally be incurable. Problems in study are like a patient's illness. Find out the "cause", prescribe the right medicine, and then cure it, and the child's learning will progress. Finding and solving problems is the process of treating diseases.
My daughter's math performance in high school for three years has been unsatisfactory. The test scores are often around 50 or 60 points, and even she has been promoted to the third year of high school, with only 60 points. After every weekly, monthly and mock exam in the second semester of senior three, I communicated with her like this:
"You are a clever boy, I know you love learning, and you will learn it well. But I didn't do well in this exam. Let's find out why, shall we? ..... This time, my math knowledge is not solid and thorough. If you can thoroughly understand the chapters you don't understand, you can solve all the problems in your study (problems are opportunities for progress, and problems will help you make progress), and you will definitely learn math by yourself! " June 20 16, she took the college entrance examination, and her math test score improved to 98.
To enhance learning motivation, we must change learning methods, promote deep learning, enhance students' learning motivation, awaken students' learning enthusiasm and release their learning potential. Progress is really inevitable.
Please believe that children have unlimited potential and motivation, and all hopes and dreams are possible!
About the author: Zang Xiaoyun, female, 197 1 February, 49 years old, Aquarius, graduated from Northwest Normal University, engaged in English teaching in primary and secondary schools for 26 years, and likes reading and writing. Learn family education knowledge every day, hoping to help more parents and children.