Many parents always say from their own point of view that everything they do is for their children. It's all for children, and it's all for their better development. (family).
Therefore, it will be used as a reason to exert unlimited pressure on children. A nice name is given to children, which is a sign of loving them. But for children, is this really the case? William Shakespeare, Hamlet, family.
China's parents' common fault: When they love their children, they always like to make unnecessary self-sacrifice first.
For example:
Friends are always strict with their children. Not only for children's learning requirements, for children, every exam should be ranked in the top three in the class, homework must be completed on time, and various cram schools should be reported on weekends.
Always tell children a lot of truth and control their communication. (William Shakespeare Hamlet Xue) It turns out that such a child can accept it.
However, when the child is now in the third grade, friends even put down their work and take care of and supervise the child around them. Whenever a child is disobedient or fails in the exam, his friend will be very sad. Tell the child that it is for you. I want to give up my job and pride.
China's parents' common fault: When they love their children, they always like to make unnecessary self-sacrifice first.
Friends think it can make children work harder. But it actually puts a lot of pressure on children. Finally, the children broke out and had a big fight with their friends. Now they are still in the cold war.
In fact, for this kind of problem and contradiction, this is a common thing in the process of children getting along with their parents. In the TV series Little Joy, the Eiko family is typical. Always stand in your own position and think that everything you do is for the children. One must sacrifice one's job for the development of children.