When pregnant, all kinds of nutrition supplement the IQ of children, and try to live in the school district to give children a good starting point. At school, all kinds of training classes spent all their spare time. Even so, they may not get good grades in the college entrance examination.
Admittedly, getting into a good university is really important for children. This means that children will have a good job and lay a good foundation for entering the society. But then again, the most successful education for children is not reflected in which university the children are finally admitted to, but whether the children's three views and personality are sound and whether their ability to deal with problems can reach the corresponding level.
Some children are completely isolated by their parents at the learning stage, and are taken care of like flowers in a greenhouse. They don't have to worry about anything except learning. In the end, although the child was admitted to a famous university, he did not have the ability to take care of himself, or he could not integrate into the collective life, and he could not integrate into society quickly in the future. This seemingly scenic education is actually a failure.
Yao Yuan, 49, is such a typical example. At the beginning, he was admitted to Beijing Institute of Technology as the top scholar, but suddenly disappeared 12 years ago. It was not until this year's epidemic that the Shanghai police collected the floating population that he found a big beard in a dilapidated demolition room.
At first, the police didn't know who he was, and Yao Yuan himself was delirious. In order to identify himself, the police had to take him back for verification. In this way, everyone knows that he is Yao Yuan who disappeared in 12, and in the previous 12, his family tried their best to find his whereabouts.
How did the original champion become such a state? It's unbelievable. But when Yao Yuan gradually regained his will and recalled his original glory and unwillingness, we finally understood the whole story. It turns out that Yao Yuan, whose academic performance has always been excellent, still achieved excellent results in school after he entered the Beijing Institute of Technology as the top candidate in the college entrance examination, and his teachers and family had high hopes for him.
After graduation, Yao Yuan was admitted to 2 14 Institute of China Ordnance Industry Corporation. At that time, Yao Yuan was the backbone of the college and the pride of the family. However, Yao Yuan, who has a high heart, is unwilling to work and live in a small city all his life. In 2003, Yao Yuan decided to dream of Shanghai.
After arriving in Shanghai, Yao Yuan felt unprecedented pressure. Shanghai has many opportunities, great pressure and fierce competition. Yao Yuan, who has always been regarded as the apple of her eye, can't even find a satisfactory job in Shanghai. What is there to talk about? Yao Yuan tried many times, but it was ordinary after all.
In 2008, the economic crisis swept the world, and Shanghai was inevitably affected. In this context, Yao Yuan lost his job. Under the circumstances at that time, unemployment was a normal thing, just needed to make some adjustments, or just waited for the right opportunity, but Yao Yuan, who had always been a favored son of heaven, simply couldn't stand such treatment.
He went upstream many times, and all parties were rejected for job hunting. In a fit of pique, Yao Yuan decided to wander around. That's it. Yao Yuan disappeared 12 years.
Yao Yuan, who lost contact with his family, seems to have suddenly lost his care and spirit. Wandering life makes him have no rules and no goals. He doesn't know what to do, and his mental state is getting worse every day. Since losing the news of Yao Yuan, Yao Yuan's family has been searching for him in various ways. The family spent all their savings just to find their proud son.
12 years, the Yao Yuan family thought about countless results, even bad things, but they didn't expect to meet their children in this way. The former headmaster is vulnerable to setbacks. This educational result is thought-provoking.