My youth I call the shots
Through their own experiences, parents have painted a grand blueprint for their children's future, with rich colors and light writing.
Children have dreams, embrace youth, look forward to the future, and are eager to travel in the rivers and lakes to strengthen themselves through their own practice.
Parents are eager for their children to grow up through their precious experiences and become pillars of talent; And children, eager to achieve the future through their own efforts! Both of them are for the sake of their children's future, and both hope that their children will develop in a good direction. However, parents ignore their children's initiative. Future belongs to children, youth belongs to children, and growth should also belong to children. Parents are thinking about their children's future, but, after all, youth and fate are in their children's hands. My parents' youth has passed, and the regrets, dreams, experiences and mistakes of those years are all my own youth past. He gave everyone youth and also gave everyone the right to have youth. Therefore, parents should let go of their hands and let their children's dreams fly!
In the process of children's growth, parents don't want their children to make mistakes and tell them their own experiences. However, the experience of parents may not be suitable for children. Everyone has their own uniqueness. Every child is a miracle. Every child is gold. Polished gold is brighter! How can a child know if he is right or wrong unless he tries?
Once there was a mother. When her daughter 10 was old, she had to study hard and won the first place in her class. My daughter obeyed and was admitted to the best high school and the best university. Later, she was admitted to graduate school, and then her daughter got a doctorate. At this time, her daughter is 30 years old. She advised her daughter that it was too early to get married until her daughter got a "high salary and high education". When her daughter was 35 years old, she began to worry because her daughter was too old and no one wanted to marry her. Although she is highly paid and highly educated, at the same time, her daughter is also an old woman. In the next five years, she never found a suitable partner for her daughter, and she found that her experience was wrong. Although her daughter is excellent, no one dares to take it. At this time, she used her own.
Eagle is the oldest flying animal in the world, and only one young eagle should be kept every year. When young eagles should learn to fly, adult eagles always throw young eagles into the sky and let them experience thrilling flight attempts! Therefore, the eagle has super flying ability. Parents should also let their children try to fly by themselves like eagles!
Children face not only the future, beauty, dreams, sweetness, friends, career, but also confusion, frustration, disappointment, bitterness, degeneration, enemies, unemployment and so on! When you face the former, remember to share your growth and success with your parents, which will always be their pride and pride; When you face the latter, remember that you still have parents who love you and occasionally fail. They love you the most in the world!
Parents love you and are afraid that you will go the wrong way. There is nothing wrong with my parents, but I am the master of my youth. Let me experience it myself and face it! Dear mom and dad, let go! Believe me, I will have a bright future!