For adolescent children, parents should pay attention to making their children independent, fully tap their self-care ability, and let them develop their own habit of dealing with trivial matters. Otherwise, everything is done for them, which contradicts their self-awareness. Secondly, from the influence of authority to objective analysis and guidance, because of the rapid development of society, parents often appear amateurs when they open their mouths, and their authority gradually loses. To avoid compulsory "education", children only need objective analysis and guidance from their parents after encountering difficulties, problems and setbacks. Moreover, this kind of analysis and guidance should also be friends.

Parents should let their children learn to take responsibility.

Adolescent children have the ability to recognize things themselves. If parents don't notice the change of their children, but blindly lead them along their own designed route as in the past, it will naturally cause their children's dissatisfaction and deliberately oppose their parents. To get along well with children, parents must correctly understand their children and let them learn to take responsibility.

Parents should avoid publicly condemning their children's education.

Everyone has a good face, especially an adolescent. Don't think that he is just a child, there is nothing to be ashamed of. It's wrong of you to think like that. Adolescents have the most face. They have high self-esteem. Therefore, parents should try to avoid being in public when educating their children, especially in front of teachers and classmates.

Parents should never compare other people's children with him.

Many parents have had this problem, which not only fails to play an educational role, but also attracts children's rebellious psychology. Talking about things, analyzing problems in detail and helping children solve problems instead of complaining are taboos.

Parents should guide their children to make positive friends.

Parents and teachers are indispensable to a child's growth, but friends have the greatest influence on him. Some problems, children may not want to communicate with their parents and teachers, but prefer to share with friends.