Especially in public places, we often see some rude children, and their parents often condone their children's "bear" behavior, which leads them to become "Xiong Haizi" in the eyes of others.
Parents are children's first teachers and the most important teachers in their lives. Many times, parents' behavior has a great influence on their children.
Previously, a video of parents educating their children in shopping malls became popular on the Internet. In the video, the little boy and his mother are shopping in the mall, and the child's mother helps the child carry a small schoolbag, and the child holds a cup of milk tea in his hand. Maybe the little boy didn't hold it steady, and the milk tea suddenly fell to the ground and spilled out, and the floor was dirty.
At this time, neither the child's mother nor the little boy left. I saw the boy's mother take out a pack of paper towels from her bag and hand it to her child. The children also cleverly took the paper towels and silently squatted on the ground to clean up. Although the boy's mother didn't help, she stood silently beside the child and watched the child's movements. They didn't move on until the children were cleaned up.
In this process, the boy's mother didn't say anything wrong, and the boy himself quietly cleaned the floor without the slightest reluctance. In this way, after the boy cleaned up, he threw the garbage into the trash can and left by the hand of his mother.
A child is like a big mirror, which often reflects the education of a family. The little boy in the video can see that her parents usually teach well.
1, set an example
Parental education is very important for children to become educated people, because parents' behavior will exert a subtle influence on children. Therefore, if parents want to educate their children, they must first set an example and set a positive image for their children. As a child's role model, let the child slowly move towards Excellence.
2. Establish rules from an early age
When children are young, many parents are too fond of their children and unwilling to let them do anything, so they often develop an arrogant character. In fact, this is very bad for children. Parents should set good rules for their children from an early age and let them know that some things can be done and some things can't be done.
It is not an instant to cultivate a well-educated child. Parents should pay attention to their children's behavior. If the child has any incorrect behavior, it must be corrected in time to let the child develop in the direction of excellent hope.