If children are not studying and are not in the state of learning, it is difficult for parents to ask their children to be hungry for learning. On this issue, parents should do the same. We need to understand the situation of children and realize that it is not a wrong thing for children to like games, but a very normal thing.
If parents can cut in from this angle, they can understand what happened in their children's world from an equal angle, not from a didactic angle: what difficulties did he encounter? What difficulties are you likely to help? Or is the child willing to help you? If we communicate from such a more equal and uncontrolled perspective, we may be able to re-establish some kind of trust with our children. Only by establishing the trust between you can you give him some advice, talk to him and let him know your good intentions. Until this trust is established, all your preaching is invalid.
Some students mentioned that when children grow up and go to college, the relationship with their families begins to fade, and their attachment to their families also decreases, and their parents are a little uncomfortable. The longer the child is, the farther the relationship between him and his parents will be, and the child will become more and more independent and less dependent on his parents. This is an inevitable process.
Every parent has to face a psychological construction after his child becomes an adult. Just like ourselves, the more we grow up, the more we want to live independently in the world. I hope our parents will stop treating you like a child. If we change places, such a thing will be easily solved.
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