Sun Li once commented on Huang Lei: "He is a person with a strong sense of family." Huang Lei once said in his book My Shoulder, Their Wings that they settled in the suburbs of Beijing, far away from the noise of the city, and lived a semi-secluded life. In this way of life, he and his wife can spend more time and energy to protect their children. ?
Some people say that Duo Duo can have such knowledge because his parents provide a good educational environment. In fact, the reason why Duoduo has so many outstanding achievements is his accumulation and hard work for many years, and it is also an example for his parents.
I think in a democratic family, we will pay more attention to the small family and have a relatively weak sense of identity with the traditional "big family". My parents have loved family harmony since I was a child, so for me, before I got married, my parents and I were a close whole, or a community of interests, and relatives like three aunts and six grandmothers would not interfere too much in our lives. If they get involved in our life too much, I will be even more disgusted.
Relatively peaceful, tolerant and fond of thinking. Because of family relations, many things are discussed. Some are family affairs, some are family affairs, and some are social. When there is discussion, there will be differences, and sometimes I will blush and have a thick neck, but basically I will quarrel in the morning and make up in the afternoon. I will not be in a bad mood for more than 6 hours. My family is used to reaching an agreement in discussions and disputes. At worst, it is harmony but difference. So relatively speaking, personality will be more tolerant.
Children who grow up in a good environment have a keen sense of beautiful things during and after their growth. Even in adversity or passive situation, we will face it with an optimistic attitude and deal with the problem in an appropriate way.
Rough view, welcome interactive comments.