In modern times, many parents think that stocking parenting is good for children to grow up happily. Don't put pressure on children before they go to school.

Therefore, children have no other enlightenment education except basic language learning before school, and only eat and play every day. In a word, it is how to be happy.

Then I entered the primary school stage and found that my children couldn't keep up with their academic performance, and other habits and abilities were not cultivated.

Then parents regretted it and began to complain that free-range farming was really unreliable!

There are also some parents who always deceive themselves with the language that "he is not sensible, but has grown up".

Parents hope to use "stocking" education to reduce their workload and at the same time realize respect for their children. And how much children can gain from such false respect, don't think that you already have the answer in your heart.

Stocking parenting is neither indifferent nor obedient to children. It is necessary to "let go" and "raise", and pay attention to rules and discipline while giving children freedom.

Stocking and parenting is to let children grow up in a relaxed environment, so that children can get in touch with nature and society properly from an early age and receive social exercise earlier.

You know, children face many critical periods at the age of 3-6, and all kinds of abilities will develop rapidly in this ability.

Other people's children are in various enlightenment classes and interest classes. After class, they practice seriously, and your children play carefree, and the gap will gradually widen.

Stocking education itself is right, but it must be moderate, with boundaries and rules.

Sometimes, you want Buddhism to ignore children once and make life full of freedom and love. But life often gives you a loud slap.

There is an episode in "Family with Children" in which Liu Xing and Xiao Yu's strange mother, Liu Mei, didn't enroll in interest classes to cultivate their special skills when they were young.

Liu Mei, who always respects children, is very wronged. "When I was a child, I reported this class to you. I want you to learn, you don't learn! "

Liu Xing retorted, "I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn?" At that time, I was too young to understand. Don't you understand?

You should cultivate and educate me from an early age, and you should force me to learn ... a few words from an early age, but every word, Liu Mei was speechless.

In fact, Liu Xing's "fallacy" has been staged in many families.

When children are young, it is necessary for parents to make decisions for them, and sometimes even let them do things they don't want to do, especially study.

If you don't want your children to regret when they grow up, parents should take responsibility, go forward and become guides for their children in out of the dark.

So what should the correct stocking education look like?

Teach children to know and understand the rules and cultivate their awe.

Making children understand the rules is the first step to teach children to know the world, and it is also an important step to teach children to protect themselves.

We should not only let children know that fire can cook and keep warm, but also let him know that playing with fire is a very dangerous thing. Uncontrolled fire is very powerful and harmful.

It's like telling children that they can't run and play at will on the road because there are many cars and the speed is very fast. If you play casually, you will be easily hit by a car.

So in order to protect ourselves, when walking on the road, we should obey the traffic rules, so that people and cars can live in peace on the road.

Parents' expectations for their children are nothing more than the hope that their children will grow up healthily and happily. If healthy and happy growth is one side of the coin, then understanding and obeying the rules is the other side.

Only by teaching children to understand and obey the rules can they grow up healthily and happily.

Help children form good habits and teach them to realize the proper sense of limits and boundaries.

Every child loves to play and naturally rejects good habits, but once good habits are cultivated, they will be a lifelong treasure for children.

It is extremely important for children to learn to stick to and set goals for a long time. Therefore, don't let free-range education become an excuse for parents to be lazy.

More importantly, it is necessary to teach children proper sense of limitation and boundaries. People and things will have their own security areas.

Once you cross the line carelessly, it will cause countless troubles. Once a tragedy happens, how can children live happily?

If you want your children to be happy, please let them get rid of their own shortcomings, establish their own good habits and realize the existence of limits and boundaries.

Only in this way can they live happily in the future.

Parents' role models are the most powerful way to educate their children.

If the parents are originals, then the children are copies. There is something wrong with the copy. We should replace the original.

In the face of children's problems, parents should first think from themselves, instead of blindly using their authority to constantly force their children to correct them.

The three most useless educational methods in the world are: reasoning, losing your temper and deliberately moving. Simple words and deeds are the most effective and the most difficult to do.

In short, you should be what you want your children to be.

If you can't let go of your mind and cultivate habits freely, it is better to educate your children in a down-to-earth manner and give them quality companionship instead of nominal companionship.

Don't make excuses for your laziness. For children's education, we must be "giants in action".

There has never been an ability in the world that was cultivated by "Buddha parents". Any achievement of children can not be separated from the careful guidance and cultivation of parents.

Without certain rules and good habits, "stocking" is just a blind "laissez-faire", and ultimately it is impossible to "cultivate" excellent children.

Parents' beloved son has a far-reaching influence. As parents, they not only hope that their children will grow up healthily and happily, but also hope that their children will be competitive in their future work and life and gain a firm foothold in society.

You don't have to be a vassal of Wenda, but don't be crushed by the wheel of the times, just like an ant. Therefore, in the process of his education, it is impossible to be happy, but there will be pain.

Parents should try their best to mobilize all knowledge reserves and methodologies to reduce some pain for his learning process.

But children must also know that education cannot be without pain, but with happiness. In this way, he 18 years old after life is more likely.

Excessive laissez-faire education cannot teach children the meaning of persistence; I have never experienced a difficult growth, and it is difficult to appreciate the joy of success.

Excellent children will never be born. The so-called "stocking education" emphasizes thinking and habits.