Men with the characteristics of "daughter slave" often hide the shy, meticulous, warm and tolerant side of men in their attitude towards their daughters.
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A father called a "slave girl" must be a kind, loving and warm-hearted man in essence.
Since Wen Wen called his father, Wen Wen's mother discovered the other side of her husband.
Wen's father is a man with a short temper and a little grumpy, because this is not less angry with him. But when his temper comes up, he still denies his parents, and no one can say anything.
It is such a person who is patient and meticulous when playing with his daughter's building blocks. Where is the shadow of anxiety and irritability?
When faced with a gentle and lovely, tender-hearted, blood-linked daughter, the bad temper is gone!
Later, when Wen's father couldn't control it, he often called him softly, and then said, "Dad is not angry, Dad hugs."
Wen's father's anger suddenly subsided. While trying to smile, he controlled his anxious temper. Over time, his temper has greatly improved, and the whole person has softened a lot.
Daughter's slave father is often a daughter's trustworthy partner and a good playmate in childhood. He showed his innocence in front of his daughter.
When Wenwen was a child, her mother was very strict with her. Many things think that there are too many additives and she is not allowed to eat them.
A child is a sensitive little thing, born with the ability to perceive words and deeds. Xiaowen is always a well-behaved child in front of her mother, and she doesn't ask her for anything when she goes to the supermarket. Even when her mother asked her what she wanted, she wouldn't buy it.
However, every once in a while, Marvin finds that when they play alone, they always go to the supermarket and pull a lot of things home without a plan. This is just a simple buy buy buy.
As long as all the food and drinks in the supermarket are new, my father will definitely ask my daughter, "Would you like to try it?" Or you can't buy your father back and taste them one by one.
Later, I communicated with Wen's father, only to know that they just bought all kinds of popular new snacks, and bought some just because they were curious and wanted to know the taste. Maybe open it, taste it and throw it away.
According to the child's father, "only when she has tasted it can she feel so much, and she can not be curious and moved by material things." In addition, when friends talk about it, she will neither feel envious nor feel lost because she has tasted it. "
Still muttering that I want to raise my daughter rich, that is, how long her daughter has to study and not be confused by material things. Is this the explanation for raising a poor son and a rich daughter?
The process of aimless shopping is relaxing and happy. Thinking about keeping secrets from my mother, there was another little stimulus to secretly do bad things, and the whole process added a lot of fun.
Later, it developed into a routine, taking my father to the supermarket to buy snacks at will, which became a way for Wen to vent when he was in a good mood, when he was in a bad mood, or when he was nervous.
In Wen Wen's memory, her father was obedient to her, and she wanted whatever she wanted and bought her whatever she wanted. My mother taught her to make a shopping list and shop rationally and purposefully.
When she grows up, Wenwen is a girl who doesn't have high material requirements. She feels that nothing is necessary, she is rarely tempted by material things, and her consumption is rational.
When buying mobile phones, computers and other items, she will rationally analyze what products she needs and never be confused by brands. Selling kidneys to buy various "apples" in life will never happen to her.
It turns out that the role of "daughter slave" father can actually increase the daughter's resistance to material things. When the governor grew up, he was coaxed away by bad boys and walnuts!
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When the daughter reaches the age of maternal love, she becomes the slave of her father. On the one hand, she will have the joy of "there is a girl growing up in my family", on the other hand, she will be lost for no reason.
Xiaohui did well in the final exam of winter vacation in the third day of this year. Before the exam, the students in the class discussed and proposed an agreement to the class teacher, so that the students who can achieve their goals can win an opportunity to choose their peers.
Soon after graduation, both boys and girls want to be close to the people they like, feel happy and relieve the pressure before the middle school entrance examination. This idea is both possible and understandable.
Xiaohui chose the male god in her mind, the same position.
After two weeks, the boy's mother found the class teacher and offered to transfer her son and Xiaohui.
What is the reason? Under the inquiry of the class teacher, the boy and mother faltered and said that Xiaohui liked her son and his son didn't like her. The confession affected his son's study.
After Xiaohui's father knew this, he said indignantly to Ma Hui, "Our daughter is so good, which point is not worthy of him?" Son of a bitch, he doesn't even like it! ......"
Hey, hey, there are thousands of words of praise for your daughter and all kinds of dislike for other people's sons.
At this time, the father really thinks that his daughter is the best in the world, and this narcissism is easy to provoke.
Later, Ma Hui couldn't help it and asked him, "Do you think your daughter is the best and must be accepted by boys?" then what "
"......"
Finally, Hui Dad decided to guide his daughter to improve her horizons and set higher and better goals.
In order to achieve this goal, be a better and better self and work towards the goals listed in various detailed lists!
Look, in order to improve Xiaohui's English, Xiaohui's father even recited words with his daughter. Not to mention daily running sparring, psychological counseling, and all kinds of chicken soup for the soul.
You see, as a father, I really feel that there is really no man in this world who is not worthy of his girl. Even if there is, we should do the opposite.
Warn all boys that when they dislike their father's baby daughter, they must think twice before you act, and use gentle words! Although no amount of tenderness can change the final result, we still have to consider the amount of blx of that father.
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After the college entrance examination of crossing the wooden bridge with thousands of troops, the daughters grew up in a blink of an eye and entered the best years of youth and beauty.
At this time, my daughter, Nu Dad, is basically in her fifties, and she is really old.
Excellent daughter, on the one hand, dad is deeply proud, so he does not hide his heartfelt pride and the pride of "rotten bamboo makes good bamboo shoots"; On the other hand, I have begun to worry about my daughter not far away. Let a person see, can't help but show the expression of terror.
On the one hand, the father is ashamed that he is not good enough, which brings birth defects to his daughter. On the other hand, comfort yourself and the mother of the child, the daughter is a small cotton-padded jacket. Although she doesn't study well enough and doesn't have much promise, there is nothing wrong with being with her, knowing how to be warm and considerate, filial and considerate. Look at it, whenever, dad always believes in his daughter's goodness.
Facing the daughter who went to college, the father was full of words and contradictions, and he didn't know where to start.
Some people in the university like to be pursued, and the father will worry that his daughter's eyes are not accurate, and he will suffer if he meets someone who is not suitable. No one pursued it, and dad was worried that his daughter's demands were too high, scaring away good people. Finally, like the girl next door, he is still 40 years old and has no landing. ......
Therefore, the first test faced by those prospective boyfriends actually comes from the person named "prospective husband". Whether it is the test of daily behavior or the final decision, haha, it will be shrouded in shadows that you don't know.
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As an adult, every slave father always gives her the deepest blessing and responsibility.
Every father who loves his daughter always gives her everything he can without regrets. As long as I have, as long as you want!
I found an interesting phenomenon. Most daughters like to make demands on their fathers.
After graduating from Xiaoxue University, I negotiated with my father to do what I want to do within ten years, and not to get married or fall in love. In case I can't eat, I need my father's support.
The daughter slave dad was coaxed by her daughter, patted her chest and agreed, completely forgetting to pay her wife.
Even if you don't get married at the age of forty, your father will always be more tolerant and understanding of your daughter than your mother. I think, even in the face of all the pressure, maybe all fathers don't want to wronged their daughters, and they don't want their daughters to live for a lifetime.
The biggest difference between him and his mother is that, as a daughter, after he committed the so-called heinous crime, he would not think of punishment even when he returned home.
Since childhood, he always takes you to the movies, parks and beautiful scenery from the perspective of his daughter. Tell you better things and teach you to enjoy the best and bear the worst.
The role of a "daughter slave" father in the growth of his daughter comes from the depths of his soul and is irreplaceable. In the process of forming a girl's pattern, the father's influence is actually greater than that of the mother.
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Everyone's life, we must find someone who is worth paying for. This is a spiritual appeal.
In this effort, people often feel that life is becoming more and more fulfilling and meaningful. If you can't find this person, you will feel sad mentally.
A slave father, his happiness comes from finding someone worth paying for in his life.
A daughter with such a father is more likely to be a simple, warm, positive and better girl.
Because, in her heart, there is a certain sense of security, which will become the confidence in her life and will accompany her all her life!
Finally, I dedicate the song "Father" by Chopsticks Brothers to all daughters and slave fathers in the world.
"Always ask you to, but never say thank you.
It is not until you grow up that you understand your difficulties.
Pretend to be relaxed every time you leave.
Laugh and say go home. Turn around and cry.
I want to hold your warm palm as before.
But you are not with me, and the breeze brings you happiness.
Time is slow, not to let you get old.
I am willing to trade everything I have for your longevity.
Dad, what can I do for you?
Little problem. Take it.
Thank you for everything. Lift up our home with your hands.
Give me the best no matter what.
Am I your pride? Are you still worried about me?
The child you care about has grown up ... "
Thank you for coming all the way.