Once upon a time, a man kept an eagle. Later, the eagle escaped. A few days later, the eagle's body was found on the mountain. Master can't figure out why the eagle died for no reason. Under the guidance of the old man, he cut open the eagle's stomach and suddenly realized. It turned out that the eagle was pampered in a cage, but it lost its hunting ability, its stomach was empty and it starved to death. Children are a flock of eagles, and eventually they will leave the cage. Every parent, every family, is only a temporary haven. A ship that wants to go to sea will eventually go to sea, and the wind and waves it will experience are inevitable after all. There are many roads and dark nights in life, which can only be faced alone. Parents can't replace and undertake their children's lives. But, look at China today, where is there no "eagle" in a cage? They have never experienced it, and have been living cautiously under the care of their parents. When you go to school, your parents will pick you up and help you carry your schoolbag. In life, parents help to wash quilts, help to dress and tie shoelaces; Even when we went to the summer camp, some parents had prepared enough food and big bags of dirty clothes ... Imagine how such a group of "eagles" would live if they flew out of their cages. What can they do except feel the troubles and heaviness of life? Tsinghua University once expelled a student because he didn't know how to dress and tie his shoelaces at school. It is also reported that a girl didn't know how to cook eggs at school, so she had to go home crying with two eggs in her arms. Isn't it strange that such a ridiculous thing is still alive in real life? Not surprising! Such education will lead to such children. Sugarcane that is not watered with sugarcane juice is sweet. Children's growth needs sharpening, and children's ability can only be formed through sharpening. Makarenko once hit the nail on the head: "Overindulgence is a kind of destruction to children." This is not sensational. Have you ever seen a lonely pine tree standing proudly on a cliff? Why does its stem not move in the cold wind? That's because when it emerged from the boulder, it was already destroyed by suffering. Have you ever seen butterflies flying around? Why are its wings so powerful in the sun? That's because when it comes out of the cocoon, it tries its best to squeeze body fluids into its wings. "The blade comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold." "If the white jade is not destroyed, what is it?" Although the ancients have gone far away, the words are still in my ears! Some people say that the future of the country is in the hands of mothers rather than those in power. Family education is related to the fate of the country. I hope that parents in the world will let their children fly in cages, let their children experience storms and let their children build strong wings!