Cherish and appreciate
Parents pay in two forms: what children can perceive and what children don't know. We need to guide children to think deeply and learn to cherish and be grateful.
Family division of labor and cooperation
Life is not a battle of one person, but the result of the joint efforts of the whole family. We should learn to cooperate, let children participate in housework and let them feel the meaning of giving.
Really beneficial reward
There are also two forms of giving: one is really beneficial to children, and the other is our wishful thinking. As parents, we can't impose our ideals on our children, otherwise it will only cause children's disgust and resistance.
Witness the hardships of life
Let children witness the hardships of life with their own eyes, and they will be full of awe in life and learn to cherish every penny. On the contrary, if we always create an illusory world for children and let them live in a greenhouse, once they get out of this fantasy and face the cruelty of reality, they will only complain.