Many parents talk to their children as elders. What parents say is the law. Give orders, children must obey, otherwise the consequence is that children do not obey, make mistakes and need to be punished. Parents improve their attitude and lower their posture. When children grow up, parents should treat them as friends, communicate fairly and don't give orders to them.

Parents should set an example.

Parents need to set an example in dealing with disobedient children. Many bad habits of children and parents in daily life are imitating their parents' words and deeds. Therefore, parents should standardize their usual behavior and set a positive example in front of their children.

Make rules for children.

Many families educate their children so loosely that they don't know what is the right way to behave. Parents need to make rules for their children and let them know how to do things, but parents need to teach their children to do things with a gentle attitude.

Communicate with children.

15 of the girls are growing at a high speed both psychologically and physically. At this time, their views on things are varied. Parents should actively pay attention to children's psychological dynamics, communicate with children more, and communicate with teachers if possible.

Don't scold the children loudly.

Girls 15 years old are the most sensitive and self-respecting. Parents should not scold their children loudly, but learn to speak calmly. When children don't want to listen, let them calm down for a while.

Empathy.

When children are in a rebellious period, parents should learn to sympathize. If the girl resists, parents should consider the reasons from the girl's point of view. Think again about the reasons for the child's behavior.

Learn to tolerate children.

For some unprincipled mistakes, parents can tolerate them appropriately and reason with their children afterwards, which will help improve the parent-child relationship. Satisfy them appropriately. Adolescent rebellious girls will start to pay attention to their looks, and some will learn to make up. Some girls will ask their parents to buy some beautiful clothes or cosmetics. Parents and friends can meet the demands of girls properly during this time, but don't indulge them too much. Let girls know that the pursuit is ok, but it can't exceed the actual needs.

Minimize intervention.

Give more space to girls aged 15. Even if the child does something wrong, put all the questions together, try to ignore trivial things, choose only three or four questions and discuss them with the child once a month or so. When you speak, don't make a long speech. As long as you talk less, children will listen more and pay more attention.