You see, this happens every day. After a few years, you asked your child to hand you a towel, but the child was too lazy to help. Let alone help you sweep the floor and wash the dishes. At this time, you will not feel that it is your fault, but will say, look at this child, he is a big slacker. Maybe when the child really grows up, he is still indifferent to your fatigue and turns a blind eye. At this time, you have no choice. Maybe, you will say, hey, I've worked all my life and I'm used to it. I don't expect his help.
If you want children to know how to be grateful, you must change your mind: be willing to let children do things.
To cultivate her practical ability, we should not only let her do her own thing, but also guide her to do things for the whole family and parents.
She didn't know her parents' hard work until she did it herself.
I don't think you need to teach a child to be grateful. You should set an example, and he will learn to appreciate from what you have done. Our children know how to be grateful. Every time Bao Dad comes home to eat my cooking, he will say thank you to me. My wife worked hard, and then said it many times, and our baby learned it.
Gratitude is the basic moral bottom line of adult society! Basic education for children. Others are good to you. You should be nice to others, too! Mom and dad. Good for you. Yours should be shared with us Whether it's goods or mood!
It is not without reason that children do not know how to be grateful when they grow up. I'm sure there is something wrong with family education, parents' role models and parents' responsibilities. It is difficult for selfish, exquisite, selfish and irresponsible parents to cultivate grateful children. Parents must understand that children don't know how to be grateful. Is it karma?
I remember when my daughter was young, things were expensive and delicious. Once there is something delicious left for her to eat, we adults never eat it. My grandmother told us: Be sure to make the children share their food, even if they just take a bite, you should eat it, and don't be reluctant to part with it, otherwise she will get into the habit of eating without giving you anything. In the future, she won't forget what you want to eat.