Keep calm
When children are rebellious, parents are generally dissatisfied and generally use power to suppress their children. In fact, parents at this time should remind themselves to stay calm and wait for their children to calm down before communicating.
Listen more and talk less.
When children are rebellious and disobedient, if parents teach their children by preaching, they will only become more disgusted and unwilling to change when they know their mistakes in time. Therefore, parents should observe girls' behaviors and listen to their voices.
Respect and trust children
Because they have a very strong sense of independence, we should give them corresponding trust. Children often say that my parents don't trust me or understand me. In this case, we should give him some rights and trust, let him do something independently, and accept the side that they are not doing so well.
Limit the discussion to the controversial issues.
In the face of children's rebellious behavior, parents should not directly say "no". It is to open the door to communication and communicate with children. It is necessary to allow children to make mistakes, educate them not to be emotional, not to turn over old scores, not to insult personal dignity, and to guide them by asking questions instead of asking for dignity.
Put down your elders' airs
Adolescent rebellious girls will inevitably have more resistance to their parents' authority. Therefore, when a girl is fighting for independence, her parents should not suppress her for various reasons, because it is easy to arouse her rebellious heart; On the contrary, take a step back, be a girl's "mentor" and help her make suggestions to realize her desire for independence. She will be grateful to you.