I think it is not a good thing for children to be too obedient, because children who are too obedient must be the result of strict management and education by their parents.

In this case, children only know how to do things according to their parents' thoughts and words, without their own ideas, which is not conducive to their independence. Moreover, this type of children will be more dependent than ordinary children and can't handle some unexpected things at all.

In the minds of most parents, obedient children are good children. Because the way they educate their children is completely disciplined, I hope that children will act according to their own ideas and let them obey themselves completely.

In this case, it is much easier to manage children, and there will be no emergencies. Everything will be under the control of parents, and there is no need to worry that children will resist their wishes.

If children are too obedient, parents can easily discipline them first, which is the only advantage. But in addition, there are many disadvantages for children to be too obedient.

Children who grow up in this environment don't know what anger and retort are. They often only listen to their parents' opinions and regard their parents' words as completely correct rules. Even if there is something wrong with their parents' words, they will not raise them. Instead, you will do things in the wrong way of thinking, even if you are injured.