The study found that for women, lubricants are really their gospel. 8 1% of these women choose lubricants because of "reducing pain", which accounts for the highest reason why they choose to use human lubricants. In contrast, only 46% of women without this symptom will choose lubricants to avoid occasional rubbing pain.
Generally speaking, lubricants first meet the needs of lubrication during sexual intercourse, reduce the possibility of friction injury (especially for women with dry vagina or painful sexual intercourse), further increase the pleasure of sexual intercourse on this basis, and create a more relaxed and devoted sexual atmosphere through ingenious means such as smell and temperature (such as some lubricants that can generate heat).
How to use lubricant
Moderate use of lubricants can improve the sensitivity of clitoris and make it easier for women to experience the pleasure brought by orgasm during sex; Secondly, the lubricant contains moisturizing factors, which can prevent the vagina from feeling uncomfortable when rubbing because it is too dry, thus improving the quality of sex. However, the lubricant contains only mint, L- hydroxylamine acid and other ingredients besides moisturizing ingredients, so it is impossible for users to improve sexual desire, let alone treat sexual apathy after the novelty disappears.
Lubricant is an external preparation that directly acts on women's vagina, which can help complete sexual intercourse, but it can never improve sexual desire. It can only be said that it is conducive to enhancing women's sexual pleasure.
So how can we effectively improve sexual desire and improve the quality of sex?
It is generally believed that women's sexual desire is influenced by sex hormones and also related to the role of the central nervous system. Therefore, prolonging sexual foreplay's time can improve the excitability of female nervous system and stimulate sexual desire. For example, you can gently rub on the inner thigh of a woman to stimulate the sex-related meridian points concentrated here.
In addition, unlike men, intimate emotional communication, some romantic actions and even a few compliments will improve women's "sex" interest. "The key is that both husband and wife should care and find the most suitable way to make love."
When is it suitable to use lubricant?
1. Husband's place is too big.
Yedi said that if the husband's private parts are too big, he must use a lot of lubricants. Experts suggest using natural water-based gel lubricant. This lubricant can play a buffering role and reduce the discomfort caused by friction. Because this water-based lubricant is easy to volatilize, it may be appropriate to supplement it several times during long-term sex.
2. Vaginal dryness
At certain times of the month or when women get older, the vagina is more likely to dry and its lubricity is reduced. Melissa White, an American sex education expert, suggested that choosing a nutritious water-based lubricant can effectively improve the symptoms of vaginal dryness.
3. Both sides strive to "create people"
Kate mccombs, an American sex educator, said that using ordinary lubricants is not conducive to normal pregnancy. The reason is that the pH value of lubricant simulates the natural acidic pH value of vagina, thus creating a super-acidic environment, which makes it difficult for sperm to implant. However, some lubricants are beneficial to sperm, and couples can choose during ovulation.
Try a new sex law
Ellie Chas, an American sex education expert, said that if there is no lubricant, don't try too many new sex skills. When using sex toys, it is best to use a large amount of water-based silicon lubricant to better protect tissues and prevent accidental injuries during sex.
5. Need to improve the quality of sex.
Knotti said that lubricants would make sex feel better. The selected water-based silicon lubricant is more durable and has better lubrication effect than pure water-based lubricant. This lubricant also has a particularly good moisturizing effect on the skin.
6. I hope to enjoy the feeling of nature
Chas said that such people should try to choose the simplest lubricant. Any food-grade grease can be used as a safe lubricant, provided that the edible oil is as pure as possible and does not contain any additives. Pure coconut oil is a good choice. It is worth noting that the use of edible oil lubrication will reduce the role of condoms.
7. Need more stimulation
Couples who have sex for a long time tend to be "insensitive", which is the time when stimulating lubricants appear. White said that peppermint oil-based gel can produce mild stimulation and is a good choice.
8. One side is allergic to the skin.
Itching skin or feeling strange is the easiest way to disappoint a couple's life. People with sensitive skin had better choose a lubricant that does not contain glycerin or parabens.
Where is the best lubricant to apply during sexual life?
The incidence of vaginal lubrication deficiency in China is 74.8%, mostly mild and non-pathological; 39.2% is due to bad mood or excessive pressure; 13.3% people are not suitable for condoms and lack lubrication; The decrease of estrogen level in postpartum and menopause can also easily lead to this problem, causing pain during sexual intercourse.
Traditional vaseline oil belongs to petroleum products. Usually applied to the surface of female clitoris or male penis, it can last for a long time without drying. But this kind of oil will stain the sheets, which is greasy and can't be used with condoms.
The best-selling lubricant in America is water-soluble lubricant, such as KY glue. This water-soluble lubricant has no chemical activity, which can avoid affecting the growth of normal vaginal flora and generally does not cause allergic reactions.
The way of application depends on personal preference and physique. The most common method is to apply it to the condom, and then it can be applied to the female vulva, such as the clitoris. Some women like to apply it directly to the vagina. Generally, water-soluble lubricants are unlikely to cause allergies and can be used safely.