1, let children understand the meaning of privacy, and let children learn to keep secrets. First, children need to understand what is private and what can be shared unconditionally with others. The best way for parents is to cultivate their children's ability to distinguish. You can choose the form of cartoons, so that children can intuitively feel the practices of animated characters on their privacy, or you can choose to edit some virtual plots and discuss the practices of these plots with your children.

2. Let the children understand the mystery with clear words. Many parents don't put themselves and their children in a parallel position when talking to them, which leads to the fact that even if parents educate their children to keep secrets, many times children still don't understand. Therefore, if children want to correctly understand the meaning of secrets, parents need to quote some simple languages and examples to let children correctly understand and choose to keep secrets.

3. Leave some private space for children and respect their secrets. Every child has his own way of storing small secrets, which shows that these secrets don't want others to know. Therefore, parents should distinguish that children want to have their own space and be respected when they grow up. Don't pry into their children's secrets too much. For example, don't look through children's diaries and personal belongings at will, and knock on the door when entering children's bedrooms to avoid disturbing children's private affairs.

4. To teach children what they are not sure about, ask their parents' opinions. Even though many parents have been patiently guiding their children to keep secrets in various ways, every child can't help sharing his secrets with others. At this time, parents can communicate with their children in a timely and patient manner, so that children can discuss with their parents before deciding whether to share with their friends in an uncertain situation, which can also avoid the situation that secrets are spread out.

The appearance of secrets will make children mature gradually, and because children are independent individuals, children have their own ideas. Parents should start from life and gradually improve their children's sense of confidentiality. If they share secrets with the wrong people, hurting their friends will also make them feel uncomfortable.