Parents educate their children about common problems and "learn to be a man"
Educating children to learn to be human is the main and fundamental task of family education, and it is also the core issue of implementing the concept and requirements of quality education. Educating children to be human is to attach great importance to children's ideological and moral education. As parents, we can't value intellectual education over moral education. Because what is more important than knowledge is ability, and what is more important than ability is morality. Family education focuses on educating children to be human beings, mainly to improve their ideological and moral level, cultivate their habits of observing social morality, and enhance their legal awareness and sense of social responsibility.
Cultivate children's love of learning
It is not enough for parents to tell their children that it is important to go to school. They must also explain to their children that learning cannot stop with higher grades or diplomas. Learning is a way of life.
You don't have to spend a lot of money to improve your children's interest in learning, but let them see that you are reading. You can take them to museums or exhibitions. These rich extracurricular activities will make children have a strong desire for knowledge.
Mr. Maybad, who was awarded the title of "Einstein-style youth" by the US Department of Education, strongly advocated that parents must participate in activities organized by their children's schools. Doing so will let them know that you really care about what they are doing.
You don't have to have special skills, and you don't have to spend a lot of spare time helping children. Most teachers welcome parents to accompany their children on an outing, call other parents and print their children's term special reports. Often ask the teacher what help he needs.
Communicate openly and honestly
It is very important to find time to communicate with teachers, ask and observe what children are learning at the same time, and get these exact information. Parents can call the teacher to find out what their children have learned in class and what homework they have left.
Help children to be organized.
Help children make a study plan, mark all their homework on the calendar, and let them do it well in advance.
Most importantly, parents should spend some time with their children. Research shows that it is important for the whole family to eat together. Generally speaking, children who eat with the whole family are more educated. The more vivid and clear the conversation at dinner, the more helpful it is for children to learn vocabulary. The larger the vocabulary, the stronger their reading ability.
Educate children to "learn to seek knowledge"
There are many ways to learn knowledge, but the important one is to cultivate children's good study habits. Don't force children to "memorize" knowledge, but focus on understanding and learning to use knowledge flexibly.
Educate children to "learn to work"
It is necessary to guide children to participate in housework as much as possible, support children to participate in social welfare work, and cultivate their self-care ability and work habits. Children who study and work from an early age will benefit for life. Diligence is the foundation of all virtues, and laziness is the root of all evils. Therefore, it is a compulsory basic course for family education to arrange children to participate in labor from an early age. Fourth, educate children to "learn to stand on their own feet"
In the process of children's growth, there will be many bumps. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independent ability, the ability to face setbacks bravely, and the ability to improvise, so that children can learn to hone themselves in a vast world and fly high.
Today's society is a competitive society. People in this highly competitive era will be eliminated by society if they have no knowledge, special skills and various abilities. Therefore, parents should not only educate their children to learn cultural and scientific knowledge well, but also actively participate in other activities to cultivate their children's abilities in all aspects, so that they can develop in an all-round way and become useful people in society. The education and cultivation of children is a very complicated knowledge, and our parents will try their best to cooperate with the school education and create a good environment for the healthy growth of children.
Have high expectations for children.
One way to encourage children to think about the future is to set family goals. Parents write a task book, the content of which is what their family should achieve this year, including what progress their children should make. Teachers also have their own tasks, don't let any students fall behind, try their best to help students with poor grades get good grades, and help students with excellent grades to a higher level. Have high expectations for children, and let children know this, which can encourage children to have confidence in themselves and make continuous progress.
The process is as important as the result.
Parents need to create a carefree learning environment for their children and don't put too much pressure on them. Many times parents only value scores. If the child is a top student but can't tell you what he has done to get such good grades, then parents should fully understand his learning process at this time.
When children need help, parents give them some inspiration and let them find the answer by themselves. Don't tell them the answer directly, but ask him, "where do you think I can find the answer?" In the dictionary or online? "
Poor exam results are a sign that we should talk to our children. What caused him to fall behind? Does he need counseling? Or did he get bad grades because he didn't do his homework? These parents should understand clearly.