First of all, respect children, so as to realize that children are independent individuals, and don't regard children as their own private property.

As parents, we all feel that we love our children very much and are willing to pay more for them. But in fact, in the name of love, it is not uncommon for parents to regard their children as their private property.

After reading an article, the author said that his cousin had two daughters and was forced by his mother to have three children. After refusing, his mother picked out his hamstring.

Isn't it incredible?

In fact, many parents are not so heartless on the surface. In fact, they have made similar mistakes. For example:

Children must obey their own arrangements on the choice of extracurricular classes and what majors to apply for in universities. They also say that they are all for their own good. To blame their ungrateful children is to disrespect their independent personality.

Secondly, only by respecting children can we give them enough freedom to develop their abilities.

Many people think that giving children freedom is doting on them and that they are not spoiled.

Giving children freedom here means giving them the right to choose, giving them the freedom to explore and try, and allowing them to make mistakes within the premise of safety and necessary boundaries.

"Active discipline" has always emphasized that children should be given limited choices from an early age, which makes it easier for children to cooperate and helps to form children's autonomy.

Teacher Yin Jianli also said: A person must be a free person before he can become a conscious person.

There are many things to pay attention to in educating children, but respecting children is the foundation. If you do this, you can really look at the problem from the child's point of view, and other aspects are definitely not bad.