This is the first time that China has made special legislation on family education, and made clear the obligations and responsibilities of family education from a legal perspective. The content of family education is stipulated for parents and the direction of family education is pointed out. At the same time, it also points out the direction for teachers to lead the healthy development of family education according to law.
Parents are children's first teachers, and family education is indispensable for children's healthy growth. In family education, it is very important for parents to have correct educational awareness and ability. In my opinion, the school that parents and children trust is the first school to provide better guidance, support and service for family education. In addition to its own educational responsibility, school education should also do a good job in leading family education. Therefore, guiding parents to establish a correct concept of family education, mastering scientific methods of family education, improving family education ability and creating a good family environment for children's healthy growth naturally become the work content and unshirkable responsibility of every teacher.
Every parent loves their children and will spare no effort to give them the best growth conditions and material guarantee. Regrettably, such conditions and guarantees often only stay at the material and practical level, which is superficial and narrow. For example, parents try their best to buy school districts, attend expensive remedial classes, enter aristocratic schools, and try their best to "smash" a good education with money. But this desire is often counterproductive, and such children often have many problems. The reason is that parents neglect the construction of family spiritual world while creating material wealth. Children have no ideal sentiment, no spiritual nutrition, no place for the soul, no motivation to learn, and no goal in life. In addition to visible luxury, families also lack invisible spiritual wealth.
Therefore, it is necessary to implement the Family Education Promotion Law. In my opinion, the core of the effective implementation of the Family Education Promotion Law is to enable every parent to build a spiritual home of the family, give the children the best spiritual companionship, and give the family room for spiritual belief. In this process, it is very important for teachers to guide parents.
Let's talk about how teachers can lead the healthy development of family education according to law:
First, guide parents to establish a correct family development direction, improve the educational pattern, and integrate the creation of family material wealth into spiritual connotation.
The Family Education Promotion Law highlights the characteristics of family education, emphasizes moral cultivation, and guides parents to pay more attention to the cultivation of minor children's moral character, scientific exploration spirit and innovative consciousness, as well as the cultivation of good study habits, behavior habits and living habits. Teachers can guide parents to establish the general direction of development according to law. Grasping this direction, parents can practice themselves with their hardworking attitude and the spirit of building their homes, influence and infect their children, let them learn to do good deeds, be good people, and strive to become useful people to the country, society and family.
Second, lead parents to keep pace with the times, have the awareness of lifelong learning and the attitude of growth.
The German philosopher Jaspers said: "The essence of education is that a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul." He told us an important concept: the real value of education is an influence. Parents keep pace with the times, and their learning attitude anytime and anywhere is the best education and influence for their children. Parents' growth posture is the most beautiful posture in children's hearts. Such influence can bring children into a rational and rational state of continuous learning and growth, cultivate their rich inner world and improve their spiritual height. Teachers should first guide parents and try to make them have such ideas and abilities.
Third, lead parents to establish a scholarly family, insist on doing a good job of parent-child reading together, and grow up with children.
The study is the soul of a family; The book is the fragrance of a family soul. Reading is a way to wash and enrich the mind. Reading makes life more meaningful and valuable. Parents insist on reading a classic with their children every week or month. Parents and children can read and chat together. In reading, they are imbued with the ethics of "benevolence" and "filial piety", and feel the lofty spirit of "wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and power can't be bent", which lays the foundation for the cultivation of children's ideal personality. Teachers should do a good job in family reading guidance and book recommendation, let healthy books enter every family and promote the healthy development of every family.
Fourth, lead parents not to be shopkeepers, and accompany their children to grow up with heart and affection.
Nowadays, many parents push their children to the elderly, schools, counseling institutions and become shopkeepers everywhere because of busy work, forced livelihood, family changes, marital discord, lust for pleasure and obsession with mobile phone networks. After the double drop, the current Family Education Promotion Law has sounded the alarm for such parents in the form of "law". Teachers can lead parents in accordance with the law, make them responsible for the growth of each child, have awe of the law, give their children the best companionship with their hearts and feelings, and never let go of their growth. Every child will be fine, and every family will be fine. When the family is good, everyone will be good and the country will be better.
In short, the birth of a "Fa", like a blooming spring flower, shows us a better scene of education in vilen. As a front-line teacher, with many beautiful expectations, I will do my best to help the real implementation of the Family Education Promotion Law.