Never tell your child: it doesn't matter.
Children will interpret "it doesn't matter" as others bullying me, so I have to endure it. This will have a great negative impact on the growth of children, a child who does not know how to protect himself and safeguard his rights and interests. When you grow up, it is easy to form an inferiority complex, sensitive and timid character.
The child had a normal conflict and was not injured.
If it is a normal conflict between children, the children are not injured. Let the children deal with conflicts themselves first. This is a good opportunity to exercise their interpersonal skills. If you need to intervene, you can guide them to see the conflict point, see each other's feelings and needs, and guide them to find ways to solve contradictions and reach an agreement on their own needs.
Teach children the three principles of "counterattack"!
1. Don't use dangerous goods, such as knives, glass, bricks, stones, etc. It is easy to hurt people and hurt themselves.
2. Don't hit sensitive parts such as eyes, nose, head and neck. It is easy to cause serious injuries.
Don't fight back too much, so as not to cause irreparable results.
Beating people is not a good boy?
If the child says: it is wrong to hit people. It's impolite to hit people! The child who hits people is not a good boy! You can answer this way: mom taught you to be polite, and it is polite to respect other people's children. Mom doesn't want you to provoke others to take the initiative to hit others. However, if someone attacks you maliciously, you can fight back. This is an act of protecting yourself! Let others know that you are not easy to bully!