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How to educate children when they are cheated?
My children have also encountered such a situation, and I handled it like this:

My child is a 9-year-old boy. His favorite games are taking pieces of paper, KFC and McDonald's. The cheated thing is a toy worn on the hand, and the price is 68 yuan.

Once, after I saw the "Instant Chicken" incident on the news, my first reaction was not to let my children eat in those two places. I thought about how to tell the child that he would accept it. After school, he finished his homework. I asked him, Shuai Shuai, I watched a program on TV today about KFC and McDonald's. This is your favorite food. There are a few things I don't understand. Can you take a look at it for me? He agreed quickly, and I showed him the video. In the middle, I have been observing the changes in children's expressions. He saw the chicken grow like this after 7 days and asked me why. I said, it was humans who gave him drugs, otherwise you wouldn't grow so fast under normal circumstances, like, handsome boy, your age should be around 1 m 3, but after I gave you hormone drugs, you may be much taller than now, and you look terrible. The organs in your body can't adapt to the stimulation of this drug and fail, and then the result is very bad. He quickly said, then those chickens take this medicine, will it affect us if we eat it? I said of course, and he asked what to do. I said, the best way is to stop eating, then you will be like a normal child. Once I deliberately asked him to go somewhere to eat, and he said there was instant chicken in it, which was not delicious. I'm not going.

Toys are children's natural favorites, especially guns and knives that boys prefer. The toy I just bought him is the one that Altman is wearing. I took it downstairs to play with the children. It wasn't long before he cried that his toys had been taken away by other children. I asked him for it, but he didn't give it. At this time, I squatted down and stroked the child's head with my hand and said, son, I am really happy for you. Do you know why? He cried and shouted for his head. I said, look, you are very happy and trust your children. Take out your toys and play with them. But one of them took your toy and didn't give it to you. What does this mean? He didn't keep his promise, which broke your heart. Have you ever cried or lost your toys? He nodded, and I pointed to his little heart and said, Is it difficult? He did it. I said, do you want to be uncomfortable next time? He shook his head vigorously. I said, it's normal for you to get along with children like this. If you learn to protect yourself, you won't be like this. He asked me, how can I learn my toys? I said, when you learn to protect yourself, you have to pay a certain price. This toy is your price. Then I ask you, do you know that you will play with children next time? He nodded vigorously. Well, remember not to play with children you don't know or are not familiar with next time. In addition, when people have a bad opinion of a person, don't contact him. Use your head when you encounter any problems in the future, so that you can not only protect yourself, but also have new energy like those people in Altman!