In the face of children's bad temper, parents should not fight violence with violence, but find the right way to guide and help their children.

1, to avoid factors that cause children to be grumpy.

Parents should recognize some common factors that trigger children's temper. For example, when a child is watching TV, his parents suddenly order him to go back to sleep at once. In this case, the child may lose his temper. Parents should interact with their children more, observe more, and pay attention to finding some signs before their children lose their temper, such as impatience and lack of interest. Once parents find these signs, they should intervene in time to reduce the chance of their children losing their temper.

Step 2 pay attention to your emotions

Children's personality development is closely related to family environment. When a child grows up in a family with negative emotions, no matter who the emotions are directed at, the child will be affected. Therefore, children will subtly imitate their parents' personality. If parents are grumpy, it is likely to drive their children to be grumpy; On the other hand, if parents are gentle, children will also be affected by positive optimism. Sometimes parents get angry when their children lose their temper. At this time, they need to adjust their emotions and don't treat their children grumpily, because it is difficult for two grumpy people to solve problems.

3. Establish a good emotional management mechanism.

Parents can help their children deal with their emotions better by educating them on some emotional management methods. For example, parents can teach their children to calm down by taking a deep breath or counting. Parents can also encourage their children to express their feelings and help them find appropriate ways to vent their emotions, such as painting and keeping a diary.

4. Establish positive behavior patterns.

Parents should guide their children to establish positive behavior patterns and attitudes, and educate them to respect others, help each other and be kind to others. When children do something wrong or lose their temper, parents should not directly criticize and blame them, but should give them some positive publicity and encouragement at an appropriate time, so that children can realize their mistakes and provide opportunities for correction.

5. Cultivate children's ability to deal with emotions

The reason why children lose their temper may be that they don't know how to deal with their emotions. Therefore, parents can help their children learn how to solve problems and find solutions through communication and expression, instead of resisting and complaining. Parents can also relieve stress and anger by educating their children how to adjust their emotions, such as through sports, reading and other activities.

6. Establish good communication and trust with children.

Parents should establish good communication and trust with their children, understand their inner world and needs, and respect their feelings and ideas. When a child loses his temper, parents should not directly blame and criticize, but should first understand the child's true feelings, and then give appropriate guidance and solve the problem after listening to the child's thinking and emotional expression.

To sum up, children's bad temper can be improved through proper guidance and education. Parents should pay attention to their children's emotional changes, observe their needs and feelings, and help them develop positive emotional management strategies and behavior habits. At the same time, parents should also establish good communication and trust with their children, which will help solve problems and improve their emotional stability.