Recently, Xia Keli revealed in a program that her daughter was "peeked" by Zou Shiming's son Zou Xuan Ming while taking a bath in Where is Dad? Before contact, Jessica Hester Hsuan often "haunted" in summer, and he also "kissed" Liu Ye's daughter Nina. Many netizens are worried about sexual enlightenment education in Jessica Hester Hsuan. Some fans sent a private letter to Ran Yingying, Jessica Hester Hsuan's mother, hoping that she would pay attention to this issue.

Later, Zou's mother, Ran Yingying, responded in Weibo that it was a misunderstanding, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens. Last night, Ran Yingying responded again, saying, "I have received all your suggestions and love, and @ I am my Zou Shiming. We will strengthen education and guidance for Jessica Hester Hsuan. Children's growth is inseparable from everyone's support and care. Thank you. " Ma Xuan's answer did not calm the storm. At first, everyone was still discussing the issue of children's sexual enlightenment education in a practical way, but slowly "Xuan Xuan powder" and "Xia Xia powder" gradually began a war of words. Seeing the increasingly fierce rhetoric between the two sides, Xia Keli quickly stepped forward to put out the fire: "Please don't scold children, they are naive." I also apologized to Weibo in Ran Yingying, Ma Xuan: "Sorry, if what I said made people misunderstand, let them scold Xuanxuan. He is a good boy, and I love him. Sorry. "

Nicky thinks that Jessica Hester Hsuan, who is less than 4 years old, is still at a naive age, and he is at a curious age. Little boys like beautiful women, so we don't need to surf the Internet at all. We criticized a three-year-old boy online for being too harsh, but Jessica Hester Hsuan peeked at taking a bath in summer, which triggered a big discussion about children's sexual enlightenment education. In fact, children begin to have gender concepts around the age of 4. Parents should guide children of this age, help him (her) distinguish the sexual characteristics of men and women, cultivate his (her) awareness of sexual protection, and lay the foundation for future growth. Sex education is an indispensable part of children's growth, and parents are the most important role in children's sex education.

The first thing to do is to distinguish between boys and girls. There are such boundaries in the family. For example, when a boy is three or four years old, his father will start taking a bath. Father can't always put it on his mother because he is busy with his work. Girls can't show their bodies to their fathers at home when they reach a certain age. Otherwise, children's gender awareness will be weak, and they will treat girls outside like mothers, completely unaware of what is wrong and what is wrong.

Gender education can be carried out at home, for example, the bathroom should be closed properly, children should not be allowed to come in to watch when taking a bath, children should not be dressed in front of the whole family, men, women and children, and children should not be shown birthmarks or scars casually. Adults should not wander around the room naked after taking a shower, but should wear good clothes at home. When changing clothes at home, avoid children of the opposite sex. This is the first and best education. Let's talk about Nicky's important role in children's sex education.

For boys, their father is the best "mentor" for their sex education. As a man, a father should give his son positive guidance and even create a relatively private dialogue environment to share his experiences with his son. Parents keep an open and honest attitude towards sex, which also makes children no longer keep secrets about sex. If guided by other things, the boy's sexual germination can also achieve a "soft landing."

The advice to her daughter's father touched her more. In most families, fathers and daughters don't talk about sex. They think this is what mothers should do. They are different from their daughters in gender, so it is not convenient to talk about this topic. But in fact, fathers should also play an important role in their daughters' sex education. Different from the mother's reminder of "don't go out in circles", the father revealed the real psychological and behavioral motives of men. This angle can make her daughter have a more sober and complete understanding of the opposite sex, and at the same time, because it is said by her father who loves her, it is more convincing to her daughter. In his letter to 15-year-old daughter, Le Jia reminded her that "premature tasting of forbidden fruit will affect your health", and on the other hand, he said, "If you are caught unfortunately, remember, Dad won't blame you, and Dad will always be here". Vigilance and protection is probably the most pertinent attitude of a father in sex education for his daughter.