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The crooked-faced bride is on fire. What should parents do in the face of their children's defects?
Every parent wants their children to have a healthy body, and at the same time, they also want their children to avoid some setbacks as far as possible on the road of growth. However, some children are born with some congenital defects, and in their lives, they may have to face more things than others.

On the Internet, a bride was very angry. When it comes to the bride, many people may think of her beauty, but the bride is angry not because she looks good, but because she is too ugly.

At the first sight of the bride, some people think that this is a special effect used in shooting, which makes people's faces look crooked. Who knows, this is not a special effect, but the true face of the bride. In this regard, many people began to talk about it, and some even laughed at the bride's face as a "shoehorn" face. Looking at the groom's face next to him is even more intriguing. Is this a happy smile or a sad cry?

The expression was embarrassing enough. A kiss from the bride next to her made the groom's expression even more embarrassed, and a smile disappeared, leaving only a "sad" expression. Many people joked that the groom had been kidnapped.

There are also some malicious people who say that the groom is willing to marry a "crooked-faced bride" just because the bride's family has money. It is undeniable that such a situation does exist in society now. However, have you ever wondered how you would feel if your child was not such a person and was guessed by others?

No matter what happens to the bride and groom, I hope everyone will not be a keyboard man, squander the keyboard and say something hurtful, otherwise they may become the object of ridicule one day. At this time, the taste of empathy can be uncomfortable.

Parents want their children to be healthy and complete, but there is no way to guarantee that when children are born with some defects, how should parents make their children face up to their shortcomings?

1、? Let the children face the fact of defects.

When a child has some physical defects, he is very inferior inside. Children with long-term inferiority will be self-enclosed, which is not good for their physical and mental development.

When a child has a physical defect, parents should let the child learn to recognize this fact, tell the child that the defect is that God is testing himself, give himself more opportunities to experience, and let the child slowly accept his difference from others. After a long time, children will gradually accept this fact.

2、? Parents should give their children more love and companionship.

Children with defects will encounter more troubles than normal children in the process of growing up, and even be laughed at by their classmates. At this time, the child's heart is very fragile. If the parents are not around the child at this time, the child will be even more pitiful.

In order to make children with defects live as healthy as normal children, parents need to inject more time and patience and give their children enough love and companionship. Only in this way can children grow up more happily under the care of their parents.

Parents should take their children to read more books and see the world more.

Reading thousands of books and Wan Li Road, the more books you read, the more children know, not limited to their own physical defects. A useful person, no matter where his body is defective, can create unlimited wealth as long as his brain is turning.

As parents of children with defects, parents should show their children more things, let them know more, have time to read more books, make their children become useful people, make them stronger, and some hurtful words will disappear.

Respect for others is the most important quality a child should have. If a child doesn't even have the consciousness of respecting others, it is the cruelest thing to hurt some people with physical defects with words. If parents arbitrarily let one child hurt another child, such parents will not educate excellent children. I hope that every parent will face up to their children's education, respect everyone's shortcomings and let their children live in a healthy and loving living environment.