For example, babies love to play games. He wants to play games after supper. He still plays games before going to bed at night. I wonder who he learned it from. His eyes are fixed on the screen, and his little fingers are particularly neat. It is estimated that he plays games better than his parents.
When parents see that this is not possible, they will reason with their children: playing games for a long time is not good for their eyes, bad for their eyesight, bad for their health, and sedentary is not good for their health, so they should exercise more; I'm too busy playing games to socialize, so I should go out and play with my children.
As soon as the child heard it, the parents said it was particularly reasonable. They said they would play less games, and then they ran back to play games.
The ancients have long summed up the experience, that is: help children set rules. Make up for the lack of self-control of children through appropriate coercion.
The ancients said: Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang.
No child is born a good boy with a clear distinction between right and wrong, and no Xiong Haizi is born ungrateful. Before the children's concept of right and wrong is formed, parents have the responsibility to guide them correctly.
Judging from countless practices, no, people with rules and freedom are called lively, and there are many such excellent teenagers around them; Freedom without rules can only be called licentiousness, and there may be such Xiong Haizi around.