First of all, very young children really can't control it. At that stage, I was the only one in the world and I could only bear it. Look at my 1 year-old sister. I never yell. Why? Coax yourself when you cry. I can cry until I throw up, and I have to wipe it myself.
But older, 3-year-old children already have the ability to distinguish. We must start making rules. You can't yell at me at night. You can't bounce around and play ball in the room. You live in a building, and there are people upstairs and downstairs. Not affecting others is the bottom line of my family education.
But remember, you can do it. Don't be angry. Don't be angry. Adults can't control themselves when they are angry, which is easy to hurt children. Angry looks can also scare children. I learned, calm down, spank and tell him why.
There is also a premise that the person who educates the child must be the one who takes him. Children must first know that the person who fights loves him unconditionally, and the fight is because of mistakes, not out of anger.
Don't fight when you come up. Without companionship and education, children will resist and hold grudges.
I will also yell at my children. Although I recognize my education, my children sometimes mince and suddenly pass by the toy store, desperately wanting toys because something is hysterical. I've had enough yelling. It's over. I apologize. Dad yelled at you that I was wrong. I lost control, but if we start over, you don't want toys, or negotiate with me to buy them next time, none of this will happen, right?
Speak with attitude, squat down, look directly at the child and be sincere. Complete and equal communication, don't lose face, don't wait too long. Children are their own, explore their own educational methods, don't be dogmatic, and don't be grumpy. It is the first time for them to be human beings, and it is also the first time for us to be parents and learn from each other.