First, old people know children's hearts better.
Old people no longer work, their daily activities are getting simpler and simpler, and the world is getting simpler and simpler. They all say "old urchin, old urchin". Old people are sometimes like children. To some extent, they know their children better and understand their needs better. Especially in the aspect of psychological support, the elderly know how to care for their children better than young people and protect their hearts from harm.
Second, the elderly know more about life.
Many young parents have little patience in educating their children, and sometimes they beat their children up if they don't understand the truth, while the elderly are experienced and calm. Teach children how to convince others by reasoning, not reprimanding and scolding.
When people reach a certain age, they gradually understand the problems they didn't understand in the past. Throughout your life, you will feel that being rich and powerful is not as good as being happy. Being a man, the most important thing is to be happy. If the child makes a mistake, just find out the reason and don't make it again next time. Parents really don't have to act evil. They have to reason with their children and explain clearly how many children are obedient.
Parents should first be themselves and show them to their children. There is really no need to take it out on innocent children. Many children's mistakes are caused by their parents.
If you can't imagine your old age, then you can compare yourself with yourself a few years ago. In the face of disobedient children, which will be more calm? Will you still hit the child without saying a word?
Third, each generation of relatives
Maybe you will find that sometimes there are contradictions between parents and children, but the elderly and grandchildren get along much more harmoniously, which is what we usually call "separation of parents". Some people say that old people love their grandchildren, especially because their grandchildren remind them of their children's childhood. "The baby is exactly the same as when you were a child!" " "You loved eating when you were a child ..." In fact, the old man's love for his grandchildren is only a continuation of his love for his children.
When I go back to my hometown on holidays, my grandmother's caring words often poke the softest place in my heart. Compared with their parents, they may not have the most contact, but the old people are silently caring about you and thinking about you.
If you have an old man to look after your children, don't blame them for "doting" them. Maybe many of their methods are really out of date and can't adapt to today's children, but as a junior, you should think more about the reasons behind them. Maybe you should reflect on whether there is a problem with your education. Even if there are contradictions, we should communicate well, and don't hurt the old man's heart because of some trivial things.