Many parents are very worried about their children's education, especially in early childhood, which is related to their future personality orientation and future direction. Childhood is a period when children's character is paved. If children's personality and temperament are well shaped in early childhood, they will have a cheerful and sunny positive attitude when they grow up. If they have a bad influence on children in early childhood, their character will also be greatly affected. Therefore, when children become stingy, parents should not feel the need to use educational means to change their children's character. We should look at children's problems with a positive and optimistic attitude. Children are innocent and lovely, and their behavior is innate. Especially when children are stingy, it also shows that children have different views on things, and children have power and control over things. This is also a good character.

First, learn to guide children when they are stingy.

Parents take their children out, especially hoping that their children are sensible, but children always have a certain possessiveness of what they like and are unwilling to share it with others. They think their things are their own and can't be given to others. This is a very normal personality. This is the child's innate decision. Parents should give reasonable guidance the day after tomorrow. Don't give a child something and you will never feel it again. Tell him that these things can still be obtained through his own efforts. Let children change their views on things. If children don't want to share things, don't abuse and scold them, so as not to affect their psychology. Parents should communicate more with their children in their daily lives and set a good example. Don't bring your own things to your children through words and deeds, that is, your own things, and children don't want to share them. They must learn to share and create their own atmosphere, so that children will follow suit.

Second, respect children's ideas.

Many parents feel that their children are stingy and lose face, so they take things from their children and give them to others, and scold them loudly at home or in public. This is the wrong thing to do. In daily life, we should respect children's feelings, chat with children more, understand their real thoughts, encourage children to share more in life and get new things through sharing. At the same time, you can often play some sharing games with your children at home, so that children can get some through sharing.

From the above aspects, we can see that when children are stingy, they must guide and respect their ideas and opinions, don't scold them loudly, and set an example.