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The seventh grade gets off work next semester and is close to the final exam. Now I can't remember why I need Xiao Jiang's parents to come to school. I called her father. At first, his father promised to come to school. However, after waiting all day, he still didn't come. Later, he continued to hang up, and his father began to shirk things at home. After hanging up many times, he finally refused to come to school. He said that the children are at school. I don't know what you can do. Don't bother me. However, parents must come to school to cooperate with this matter. Finally, it was her mother who came to school.
In the second semester, Xiao Jiang studied for a period of time and began to ask for leave because of illness. Slowly, every Thursday, her stomach began to hurt. I leave school at this time every week. Mom took her everywhere to check, and she couldn't find any symptoms. She began to dislike studying. I didn't take the final exam either. And asked her mother to suspend her from school. Because it did not meet the conditions for suspension from school, the Education Bureau did not approve it.
I have changed my head teacher since the eighth grade. She stopped signing up. The class teacher called the school many times. Every time I come to school for a while, I will continue not to study. Every time it is sent to school, it is also brought home by my mother. Never had a father. However, I learned from home. Her father's attitude towards reading is very clear. If he wants to study, he will go. If he doesn't, he will stay at home or go to work. His father is an honest man, who only likes to stay at home and work, and doesn't like to deal with people in the village. Everything in the family is handled by the wife. He's just in charge of his work. He doesn't care about anything at home, so he can be said to be a cowardly father. His position in the children's mind is dispensable.
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She gave up her studies, which is directly related to her family education. In my opinion, due to the lack of the role of father, children have no fear of people and things since childhood. Father and mother have different roles in the family. Mother is a kind of emotional cultivation and edification, and father is an example of principle and bottom line. The disappearance of this kind of father education has made children lose the bottom line. It is difficult for children to know what to do. What should I not do? Moreover, children have no sense of rules, and what children think is rules. Children will lose their sense of security when they see their father's lack of role in the family. No matter whether the mother is strong or not, the lack of father education will make children feel fear invisibly. In the process of communication, it is difficult for them to communicate with confidence. Giving up her studies is a test to challenge her parents' bottom line. It's a pity that my father didn't stand up and continued to hide behind. The father's indifference to learning stimulated the child's desire to give up. The father is to give the child a firm choice belief when the child is confused and confused. When the child is rebellious, give the child a strong bondage and let the child return to the prodigal son. Children choose to give up their studies, and only mothers struggle and beg for their children. This powerless way will not touch the child's rebellious heart.
This seemingly father's existence does not fulfill the duty of father's education, which is a kind of harm to children. And this kind of injury is invisible and the most painful.
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