2. Cultivate confident and positive children: Self-confidence is a magnifying glass of children's potential. As Vanderbilt said, a confident person will always have a smooth career, while a person without self-confidence may never set foot on the threshold of his career. "
3. Cultivate happy and emotional children: everyone is different. Only by finding your own interests and exerting your potential can you become your best self. "Tang, who did not make outstanding achievements but eventually entered Harvard, said: Don't believe in the formula of success, because we are wild plants, not garden plants. Everyone's unique advantages are the source of confidence. " Go and help your child discover his unique advantages!
4. Be your child's friend: In your mind, your child may never grow up, but many children are willing to treat themselves as adults when they are 15 years old or even earlier. At this time, parents can discuss problems with their children in the form of adult conversation, rather than being completely paternalistic. For example, talking about ideals, learning motivation, entertainment, dedication, dealing with people, falling in love, making friends, dealing with family problems and so on.