1. Communication: When children are disobedient and rebellious, parents are not advised to directly reprimand or strongly demand their children to finish something. Instead, they should improve their communication methods, such as patiently communicating with their children to avoid the pressure and emotions in their hearts, and through communication, clear their minds and get solutions to problems;

2, listening: 8-year-old children have been able to clearly express their ideas, but if parents are not good at listening at this time, they may have resistance, which may lead to children's reluctance to express their ideas in the future, forming a vicious circle;

3. Trust and tolerance: There will inevitably be some misunderstandings in life. Parents need to believe in their children's kindness and integrity as much as possible and think from their children's point of view. If children do it right, they should be fully encouraged. The 8-year-old children have poor control over their emotions, so they need their parents to be more tolerant and avoid their rebellion and disobedience;

4. Make rules: 8-year-old children have gradually established their own concept of judging right and wrong, and their self-awareness has begun to strengthen. Parents can start to make rules on an equal level with their children, so that children can understand the benefits of obeying the rules, which is conducive to regulating their own behavior;

5. Lead by example: Parents' behavior will affect children subtly, so try to avoid quarreling and losing your temper in front of children, and parents should remain calm when encountering problems that cannot be solved. Pay attention to your parents' words and deeds and set an example. Children's means are mostly the embodiment of parents. The noble character of parents exerts a subtle influence on children and sets a good example for them.