Cherrie Ying is strict with Jasper, while Cherrie Ying has his own way of raising children. In this issue of Diary of Freshmen, which was broadcast on June 165438+ 10/7, 2020, Cherrie Ying gave him a severe reprimand immediately after doing something that upset Jasper. The way she treats children has caused a lot of discussion. Before that, Cherrie Ying's discipline of Jasper was recognized by many people. She didn't spoil the children, let Jasper pack her toys by herself, and let the young Jasper participate in the housework at the same time.
Cherrie Ying's educational methods have both advantages and disadvantages. I think some aspects of Cherrie Ying's educational methods are desirable, such as letting children know that they are responsible for their own affairs, packing their own toys, and the living room belongs to a public area, so they should not affect others casually. At the same time, letting children experience housework will also make their sense of responsibility grow. However, I don't agree with Cherrie Ying's severe criticism of education. I think the way of criticizing education is just a way for parents to abuse authority. If the child has behavior problems, it should be solved by actively listening and understanding empathy, so that the child can grow up better.
My parenting experience: don't abuse authority. Many parents think that authority should be used, but I don't think so. Mas? Dr. Gordon also said in the book "Parents' Effectiveness Training P.E.T" that abusing authority will only make children's rebellious period come earlier and stronger. If I have a problem, I tend to solve it in a way that respects children more. I believe that any problem has a reason, so I will first understand the reasons behind children's behavior, then guide children through understanding and empathy, and finally guide children to come up with solutions themselves.