Recognize the reality, if children have poor academic performance now, they can't eat fat at one breath. Don't set too high a goal for your child at once, it is not easy to accomplish, and it is easy to cause anxiety to your child. The same is true for specific subjects. Don't set too high a target score at once, and don't let children overcome big problems at once.
Make a long-term study plan, start with the basic knowledge, give up the difficult problems first, and leave time for children to learn and make progress. At the same time, pay attention to the accumulation of wrong questions, sort out all the wrong questions you have done, review more wrong questions before the exam to ensure that you don't make mistakes in similar questions, and your academic performance will naturally improve.
Parents should protect their children's self-confidence.
No matter what kind of children you teach, you should avoid rude accusations, destructive blows and labels that you are stupid. Find out the advantages of the test paper to praise him and tell him that he has the ability to learn well. Self-confidence is there, and there is hope for improvement in grades. Without self-confidence, children will give up on themselves.
3. Help children enter the learning state.
For example, children should care, support and encourage when they encounter difficulties; Give timely praise, encouragement and affirmation when children show progressive behavior, encourage and support children to find suitable learning methods, gradually find suitable and independent learning modes, and finally achieve a good learning state.
4. Stimulate children's inner learning motivation. Only when children really want to learn can they have a thirst for knowledge and learn consciously.
For example, parents should communicate with teachers more, explain their children's learning at home, actively cooperate with teachers' work, and ask teachers to praise their children more, preferably more than once a day in public. When children like teachers and other subjects, teachers often praise them, and they will have a force in their hearts. They don't want to disappoint their teachers, so they should study hard.
5. Cultivate children's interest.
Try to take children to different activities and meet different people and things, and children will gradually feel their interest. No matter what your child likes, please replace comments with encouragement first, and then communicate with your child slowly until both sides can agree.
Remember, communication is mutual discussion, not forcing the other party to accept your opinion. When the child rebounds, it may be that you make him feel persecuted, rather than real communication and interaction.