1, give children respect. It is necessary for our parents to change their thinking, discuss anything with their children, let them participate in the discussion of some major issues, and let them feel respected and become a part of this family.

2. Give children enough care. When parents educate their children, they must pay more attention to their inner desire for love and care for them, so that they will not rebel in order to attract their parents' attention.

3. Accept your child's shortcomings. Parents accept the negative emotions of junior high school children, and children will also believe their feelings, accept their emotions, gradually get rid of negative emotions, actively seek solutions to problems, and be responsible for their emotions.

4. Cultivate children's independence. Parents should treat junior high school students equally, not only respect their independence, but also let them learn the behavior of adults and act according to the general norms of interpersonal communication. The wrong attitude of parents is one of the important factors that cause the children's personality to be unsound.

5. Communicate with teachers more. Family is the first classroom for children to receive education, and family education is the foundation of school education. Moreover, school education is for all students, and teachers' energy is limited. Therefore, the teacher's attention will be more or less concentrated, so it is easy to produce some neglect. It is not only an important aspect of school moral education, but also an inevitable way for parents to cultivate healthy children. Attaching importance to home-school cooperation is one of the key links to improve the quality of education in an all-round way.