Nowadays, many parents just ask their children to be good people and stick to the truth, but they don't know that sticking to the truth also requires a witty and flexible mind. I think understanding this truth will be of great benefit to children's later life.

? Carl Witt

First, don't trust anyone.

It is more important to make a child a smart person than an honest person. In fact, honest people who follow the rules may not be able to handle their relationship with society well, and it is unlikely that they will be in harmony with social norms.

A child who believes in all the people and things around him from an early age will only make him a person without determination. Such people will never succeed in society.

Credulity will only make children stupid and incompetent.

People who seem to be kind to you may not always care about you and help you.

Second, a kind of wisdom that is beneficial to children's future life.

It takes wisdom to stick to the truth. Nowadays, many parents just ask their children to be good people and stick to the truth, but they don't know that sticking to the truth also requires a quick mind. Understanding this truth will be of great benefit to their children's lives.

Stick to the truth and take care of others' faces.

Don't hide your gratitude.

Not going with the flow is indeed an admirable character at some times, but at other times it will become an obstacle for a person to stand on the ground of society.

I am very grateful to the count for his kindness, but this gratitude is only hidden in my heart and I have never expressed it to her, because I didn't think it necessary to talk about gratitude at that time. When I visit them or ask them for help, I never bring any gifts or even a simple thank you. Later, I paid a high price for my informal personality.

Teaching children to be self-reliant is a virtue, but sometimes the knowledge in books is far from reality. So talk more about things other than books, especially getting along with people.

People's psychology is very complicated. If you can't handle these relationships well, you will run into a wall everywhere in the future.

What others care about is not the gift, but your gratitude to him.

Nowadays, many people attach great importance to the cultivation of children's new souls and ignore their social education, which is a prejudice. I think it is as important as other aspects of children's education to let children know the society and the people in the society as soon as possible.

Fourth, I taught my son how to fight for the interests he deserves.

Cultivating children's adult quality from an early age is the premise that I always put in an important position in the process of educating him.

I didn't go directly to the hateful man for theory, but explained the truth to Carl first, made him clearly realize that this was a despicable act, and then taught him a way to safeguard and fight for his rights and interests.

On the surface, it seems to take advantage of people's danger, but in fact it is to protect itself in a witty way. Any child should also know these methods.

I encourage my son and teach him to praise others.

Getting recognition and encouragement from others sometimes becomes the motivation to do a good job. In the process of children's growth, I often praise him in order to make him study better or do what he should do. I also often teach my son how to encourage others or praise others, so that he can get more help from others.

He is clumsy because he has no self-confidence, tolerates his mistakes and praises him whenever he has the chance. I'm sure he will do well.

Everyone needs to be affirmed by others, and sometimes he will spare no effort to work just to get praise from others.

Learn to seize every opportunity to praise and encourage others. This can not only show respect for others, but also make others willing to help you.