How to "support" poor children;
1. Develop a good habit of thrift.
Nowadays, children's material life is better, so many children have no concept of money since childhood, and basically parents can buy whatever they want. The consequence of this kind of education is that children's awareness of money is poor, and at the same time there will be excessive consumption. In fact, from the news in recent years, we can often see many examples of college students borrowing a lot. The reason is that their family's financial situation cannot meet their high consumption. In order to satisfy their consumption desire, they have to borrow money.
In fact, these situations are caused by parents' failure to give good guidance when they were young. Therefore, when educating children, we must cultivate them to be diligent and frugal as soon as possible, and help them establish correct money awareness and consumption habits, which will be beneficial to their lives.
Let the children learn to do it by themselves.
Maybe you love your children too much, or you think you are slow. In real life, many parents will choose to do anything for their children. In fact, this way is not conducive to the growth of children, and it will also lead to children becoming "giant babies" when they grow up. Because in the process of doing things for them, children lose the opportunity to do things for themselves, and over time they will become timid and even dependent. I don't know how to solve the problem by myself, so I threw it to my parents for the first time. In their cognition, parents can help them solve everything.
However, after all, parents can't accompany their children for a lifetime. As adults, children need to face society and complex environment by themselves. The best way to make them adapt is to teach them various abilities, such as the ability to face difficulties, solve problems and choose independently. Only by mastering these abilities can children cope with different environments freely.
Step 3 teach them patience
Whether you are socializing or growing up, you will encounter all kinds of problems. It can be said that no one's life is perfect. Therefore, when educating children, it is most important to pass this idea on to children, let them understand this truth and teach them patience and tolerance.
For example, in social interaction, we should learn to tolerate the shortcomings of others and look at the advantages of others. When encountering difficulties, we should also learn to be patient and endure the pain caused by setbacks, so as to succeed. It can be said that patience is an essential quality for children. Only a patient person can have a better development in the future growth. On the contrary, an impatient person will be discouraged when encountering problems, and naturally he will never enjoy the joy of success.
The benefits of "bad support" to children:
Compared with children who have been spoiled for a long time, "poor children" will be more independent and have stronger adaptability to the environment. They can adapt to this competitive society quickly when they grow up. At the same time, under all kinds of difficulties and failures, children's willpower will be stronger. They will be more calm when facing difficulties, so that such children will have more opportunities and space in their future development. In addition, "poor children" know how to put themselves in others' shoes, especially when socializing. They can think from each other's standpoint, and they are more caring and sympathetic. Such people will have more social advantages and many good friends.
The increase of one-child families has also caused many educational problems. Many parents complain that their children have many problems while indulging, satisfying and acting excessively. In fact, this is a self-contradiction, a vicious circle. If you want to make your child better, try the "poor support" method, which may bring you more surprises!