Our parents are very envious of American education. Compared with the exam-oriented education in China, American education pays more attention to children's opinions and individuals, and students are full of creativity. However, many people point out that foreign satellites are not always considered poor. For example, math education in the United States is very bad. These two points are true, but unilaterally looking at American education is leaflets and blind touch. America is a country with a serious class. All areas are divided according to house prices, so in a sense, in a sense, they are divided into poorer people according to competition. This is similar to our school district and rich area: it doesn't distinguish between races, unlike the United States. But in the gap between the rich and the poor, even without human intervention, there are unique differences between Shunyi District and Fangshan District in Beijing. The funding of public primary schools in the United States mainly comes from the property tax of school districts. Therefore, rich areas will have more money to buy better teachers, better teaching equipment and improve the teaching quality of schools. Students naturally go to school with the children in their own class.

The school emphasizes the observance of rules and regulations, and the whole teaching is full of mechanical procedures that are difficult to die. Students don't know how they do it, just follow the teacher's steps and pay attention. In school, teachers are all authorities, and students only implement teachers' tools, with little choice and decision, because the goal of training children in such schools is plumbers. The school requires students to have independent thinking ability and expressive ability. Classroom assignments often write articles and talk, which belongs to the project system. You must find materials, choose methods, organize language and describe the idea. Teachers no longer directly control students, but guide students to do anything through student communication.

The parents of this class are ordinary people and rich business tycoons, which is the rule of this world. The goal of students is not to find a good job in the future and how to abide by the rules, but how to make rules. So the core goal of this kind of school education is to make decisions and choices. Our family education goals link us with reality. At present, most of us envy the education of the middle class in China. Most parents' hopes come from various external forces to help their children study hard and find a beautiful university and a good job in the future. You can live a good life. Although some parents are very disgusted with the present exam-oriented education, and think that the traditional method of death that is difficult to record will erode children's independent thinking ability and creativity, they have also begun to actively explore quality education and explore children's quality education ability from all aspects, but the ultimate goal is the same. Just to give children a skill and skill to find a good job.

From a practical point of view, this is not thick. After all, it is possible to survive in this world and be a successful person in a certain sense. However, this kind of thinking, this kind of education, training people, thinking is naturally passive-outside, I become that I have been adapting to the world, not changing it. After entering the college, I got a good job through the company. The comparison between people is ultimately the blessing of these external auras. Now many parents and teachers have the view that children are blank paper, given by parents, schools and society, and children will grow up. This view, in fact, John Watson's view on American behavioral psychology is similar: give me a baby, no matter what their ancestors are, I can train them from leaders to thieves. All kinds of people. This externality completely ignores that the child is a complete person with independent personality, and thinks that people are always passive and in the external environment.

I have always believed that children are seeds, and a good external environment, such as sunshine and rain, can nourish this seed and let children grow and develop according to their own spiritual will. We adults are just spectators. On the way back and forth of children's growth, if children go out of the right track, remind them and help them correct, but what kind of people, what kind of people, what kind of people, only respect and support. Even if a child can walk, it's different. Only in this way can the children we cultivate have independent will and personality, independent ideological system, and self-centered rather than catering to the outside world.

The education corresponding to the basic family is to find a job. The expectation of secondary family education often increases personal value goals. The corresponding education of upper-class families is to cultivate the master's spirit and choose and change the world. Parents have copies of their parents and analyze their reality. It understands which level belongs to the cultivation of children. Although this method is clever, it will take the smoothest road, but treat the future. Of course, it is necessary for most families to educate their children according to their superiors, but I want to say that it is still necessary for your children to become an independent will and human personality regardless of the economic stage and whether you cultivate them or not. Maybe children will not change the world in the future, but their future is infinite.