1, give children a warm space to restore self-confidence:
In the face of a child failing in the exam once, we can only learn better and try to make him do better in the exam next time. In fact, it is not easy to play the role of parents. Only by skillfully paving the way for the child can he grow up smoothly.
2. Give tolerance and encouragement:
Every child has shortcomings, and it is even more impossible for every child to get the first place in the exam. There are always children who will fall behind. When the child didn't get the expected good results in the exam, he was already very sad. At this time, parents should not stimulate their children, but show tolerance and comfort, and never sprinkle a handful of salt on their children's wounds. At the same time, don't forget to say "try again next time" to your child and let him turn his attention to the next opportunity.
3. Good communication:
When cultivating children's interest in learning, it is very important for parents to communicate well with their children. If they scold children easily, they will be very afraid of you. Even if they study under your coercion for a long time, they will cope and their learning efficiency will be poor.
4. Don't put pressure on children:
I believe that children are also pursuing progress, and I hope they get good grades. If they don't do well in the exam, there will definitely be pressure at school. If parents put pressure on their children at home, it will only make them feel nervous or even escape, but it will affect their study. So parents should strive to create a relaxed environment for their children.
5. Story motivation:
It can be effectively guided according to the fact that children like to listen to stories. You can buy comic story books in related fields for your children to read, and parents can also tell their children stories in this area to make them interested in stories.
Reasons for children's retrogression:
1, poor study habits.
Because the quality of a student's grades is ultimately reflected in the quality of his study habits. Although some students are fashionable in primary school and can get good grades by their own "cleverness", by junior high school or senior high school, they can no longer dominate the situation by their own cleverness, so the consequences brought by bad habits gradually appear, which will lead to a decline in their grades.
2. Interference of electronic products such as mobile phones.
Mobile phone is a communication tool that is convenient for people to communicate. Because of the low price and good quality, many junior high school students also have mobile phones. Of course, if you make good use of your mobile phone, it can actually help you study. But some students regard mobile phones as inseparable pets. Students should never put down the paper, but never put down the "machine".
The teacher lectures seriously above, and he plays with his mobile phone seriously below; During self-study, other students are studying hard, but he is absorbed in watching his mobile phone. In this way, in the long run, mobile phones will reduce children's eyesight, which is the key reason for the decline in children's performance.
3. Students are lazy and degenerate.
It is said that this is also a bad habit, but it is listed separately because many junior high school students are lazy and their academic performance is getting worse: they don't like doing homework, taking notes, thinking and so on. They like reading books, which is completely different from what the ancients said.