There is a saying that mother and daughter are heart to heart, and there will be a magical telepathy between mother and daughter, which others can't understand, and mother is not only the best example for her daughter, but also the best teaching material. The following is the method I shared with my mothers to educate my daughter. Let's have a look.

The way a mother educates her daughter deserves to be cared for: let her know clearly that nothing can change the love of her family. If someone can't see his own value, it's because he doesn't understand your importance, so there's no need to doubt the value of his existence.

Pay attention to yourself: respect is not only respect for family and friends, but also respect for yourself. When you take good care of your health, respect your wishes, and are confident and satisfied with your life, you will naturally attract such people and have a positive and sunny attitude towards life.

Don't lose yourself: some people will lose themselves when they are in love. Don't get yourself into such a relationship. Even if you have a partner, you should live the life you deserve and have enough space to build a long-term love.

Pay attention to physical changes: when girls enter puberty, their bodies begin to change. At this time, the mother should stand in the role of reminder, not only to remind the child of what to pay attention to, but also to help the child through this embarrassing period.

Know what it feels like to be heartbroken: When a daughter is lovelorn, she may need her mother's advice. If breaking up is a lesson in itself, then learn from this lesson, learn to accept, learn to let go, and understand what the real needs are.

Be true to what you love: teach your daughter to have a strong sense of self, and don't try to be what others want, because that won't make her happy. Be loyal to what you love and devote yourself wholeheartedly to what you like, so as to keep yourself motivated.

Don't test others: don't test the love of the other half. Testing is a manifestation of a person's fear and insecurity about himself. Teaching her daughter a trusting relationship will help her, and self-confidence will make her beautiful and healthy.

Teach the right relationship: A mother must teach her daughter that true love is selfless and generous. If these qualities do not exist, you should not be reluctant to be together. External pressure or common friendship is not the reason for you to be with him.

Fairy tales are illusory: tell your daughter that she is neither Cinderella nor Snow White. Those fairy tales don't happen in real life. True love is complicated and staged in different forms. Stories are just stories after all.

How to patiently teach children to please them as much as possible: not to be a doormat, but to respect children's needs and requirements within a reasonable range, so that children can understand the difference between requirements and orders, and let children know that having requirements and demands is better than doing nothing.

Be grateful to your children: Sometimes when you are too busy with trivial matters in life, it is easy to take many things for granted, so be grateful to your children, and you will respect their uniqueness and let them know the importance of respecting others.

Be kind to your children: If you are kind to your children, your children will know how to be kind to others, and they will learn how to choose wisely because you allow them to make their own decisions.

Remember to be kind to yourself: sometimes it's really hard to be patient, but remember to be kind to yourself, because you also have feelings and feelings. Just remember that you love children, which will be a good way to calm down.

Enjoy time together: Enjoy time with children. Many times you may be busy and have limited time with your children. When your children are older, you will start looking for peers, so enjoy your time together now.

Ten ways to educate children correctly 1. Parents are the most important and irreplaceable educators in a child's life.

0-6 years old is the key period for children to form quality and good habits. The first two years of a child's life is a crucial period for establishing a strong emotional bond with his parents, and it is the basis for children's future psychological growth and building a relationship of trust and love with others.

All the knowledge about life, 50% is learned in the first year of life, and 25% is learned in the second year of life. The knowledge of life here mainly refers to the ability of love and the development of emotion.

2. If you want to change your child's behavior, parents must first change themselves.

Educating children is the process of educating yourself. Children's bad behavior is often directly inherited by the environment or parents. Education by example is the most reliable way to cultivate children's moral behavior.

Cultivating children's spiritual quality is far more important than intellectual development.

Spirit is a tree, mind is a fruit; Spirit is a lamp, and thought is light. Human intelligence is a reflection of spiritual quality. If we only pay attention to the cultivation of skills (such as various early intellectual development interest classes) and ignore the cultivation of children's spiritual quality, we can only put the cart before the horse. When children grow up, their personality will be flawed and their moral development will be hindered.

4. Reasonable control

Disciplining children is to tell them the standard of behavior, that is, what can and can't be done. Control must have authority: when children may make mistakes, we must have authority when we want to control them. Let your children know that you are serious, and your request will be accompanied by punishment or reward. Restricting children beneficially can cultivate their discipline. Of course, the control of children must be responsible. And tell your child the reason for your request. Consistency with the child's father: Parents have the same control over the child, so that the child can establish a unified standard of behavior. Even if you don't agree with dad's control, you'd better discuss it with him when the child is not present in the future. Doing so can also establish the authority of both parents. Don't over-punish: don't abuse children physically and psychologically. The best way to manage a child is to reward him for his good behavior.

5. Encourage children to establish good self-values in a positive way.

Parents need to actively teach their children basic values and behaviors. Let children grow up in society. Of course, in this respect, example is better than words, and we can be good examples for children. It is important to create a good family atmosphere. Therefore, we can't let our children do what we don't want to do, and we can't do one thing by ourselves and let our children do another. Only by setting an example and paying attention to the cultivation of children's values and etiquette can we educate the next generation with noble morality.

There are three people with high self-worth? Ability? : I am capable; I can associate with people around me; I can contribute to the happiness of others anytime and anywhere. Believe that you have the potential to learn and grow, and cultivate qualities such as courage, faith, self-confidence and trust in life and others. On the contrary, low self-worth is a negative understanding of yourself, and destructive emotions such as self-blame, humiliation, anger and hatred will accompany you all your life.

6. Establish clear family rules and hold regular family meetings.

Children need to know where the boundaries are, what to do and what not to do. Without rules, children feel insecure. There are no more than five or six family rules. To meet the specific needs of families, they must be stated in affirmative sentences and posted. If you violate the family rules, you should make clear the corresponding punishment measures. Once established, we must resolutely implement it, and adjust and repair the family rules every once in a while. Hold regular family meetings to let the whole family share the process of life development, promote democracy, respect each other and enjoy the atmosphere of love.

7. Give children a certain range of choices.

As a child grows up, it is important to give him more and more freedom and power to control his own life. We should consciously demand ourselves; Even restraining yourself from doing anything is for the children's ideas and giving them some freedom. Giving children some freedom shows that we trust and respect children, and children will respect and love us more.

Giving children a certain range of choices can avoid nervousness and provide them with practical opportunities to make decisions. Like what? It's time for bed. Do you want to hear yesterday's story or a new story? Do you want to wear a pink coat or a blue T-shirt today? If the children don't choose either, parents may ask:? Shall I help you choose, or do you choose yourself? It is a daily behavior to make choices and make children responsible, which is very important for developing children's self-worth.

8. Games are children's main activities, and children learn through games.

Children need to interact with peers, adults and the environment, and learn by contacting concrete and simulated things related to life. Games let children relax and cultivate a focused work attitude. Before the age of 5, don't start practicing symbols such as letters and numbers too early, which will limit children's thinking, because children's minds are not mature enough to understand abstract concepts.

9. Actively tell your child what to do, not what not to do.

The condescending attitude of traditional educators always says to children? No hitting, no eating on the sofa? Wait, this negative tone will only lead to attention and focus on negative behavior; And children still don't know what good behavior is and what to do. The positive statement is to use virtue to modify children's behavior, such as? Have you forgotten to live in peace with others? Or? We eat at the table! ?

10, take time to get along with children alone every day and do something of common interest together.